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female
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16-17,
anonymous
writes:I met this amazing guy online, but we talk only as friends, but I want more. Here's the full story:We both met up on a random site and started talking because there wasn't much to do on there. We talked for a month or two, but then the conversation died. A month or two later, we picked up again over e-mail, but that also died after about a few months. Once again, a few months later, he was suggested as a friend on Facebook, so I added him. We started talking AGAIN, and as I got to trust him, we sometimes began talking on the phone (we've talked only three times in the past two or three weeks). And the more we talked, the more I got to know about him. And the more I got to know about him, the more I realized how much we have in common. It's like we're soul mates or something. But the problem is, we talk just as friends. There's no flirting going on whatsoever. He lives in another state, and we both have our own lives. There's a very slight chance of us ever actually meeting (although I had applied to a college near where he lives before I realized I liked him). We talk about everything, and he even knows some things about me than my actual friends don't. We talk about our guy/girl problems, but lately I've been getting a weird pang in my stomach whenever he talks about the girl he's trying to get with. I'm most sure that he doesn't feel the same about me, but I would very much like to know if he does. But I would never ask him about it because I don't want to scare him away. And it would make things really awkward if he didn't feel the same way. But I can't help it, because we share so much in common I feel like we're supposed to be together. Are there subtle hints that he might drop if he likes me? Or should I just let it go?Thank you :)
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 try meeting up first and see how things go from their from internet or phone is very different than just talking you then get to see them naturally. then perhaps you can tell more from his body language on how he reciprocates to you you could also flirt a little and see how he takes it but meeting would be the first step and if you do please do it safely. good luck aphex xx
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