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writes:Hi. My ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. It was a mutual decision to split and we both feel we did the right thing. The problem is that i spoke to and saw her for the first time today since we split and I started to get the feeling back that i missed her. We want to remain friends. Will this feeling disapear with time and am i only feeling it because it is so recent and i am just used to having someone there to hold and share my life with?Thanks
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reader, fairhalflin  +, writes (2 March 2007):
 dont worry.
the feeling will fade.
time.
how cruel...i know but it will fade.
just hang on there.
keep your head up high.
do something in your spear time.
read a book.
go out with friends.
just keep your mind occupied.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (28 February 2007):
 after a breakup life seem very lonely if u were genuinely inlove with the person whether the decision was mutual or not the feeling is the same. the good thing is your mind is in control of the situation so the lesser you dwell on the memories of her it will dissappear with time. but the idea of being friends will make the situation unbearable for you, because u will feel under a lot of pressure when u decide to move-on.
instead agree on being "a hi-friends" if you know what i mean this way you have to know whats going on on her life and you will not feel like you have to explain if she finds you talking to another girl. its not going to be easy seeing her chattingup some boy but it will be fine. so prepare yourself for this while is still early.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (28 February 2007):
 I think in time the feeling of missing her will get less. But it will take some time, since you were in a 3-year relationship with her. It might seem hard at first, but with the passage of time it will get better. It might be hard for you to think of her as just a friend, since you had an intimate relationship with her!
It took me almost 5 months to stop missing my ex-bf...but that was until I met someone else (who was more wonderful than my ex!)
Good luck to you, and I hope that you find a wonderful girl in your future!
Peace and Hugs!
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