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writes:Hello. So I just got off the phone with my girlfriend. I am 16 and I'm trying to make plans for unvercity since its not really something you should leave till the very last second. Well I told her that I wanted to go to university somewhere close to her, and that she influenced my decision a lot. Well that didn't go over too well with her and she told me that I should choose to go where ever I want and not think about her. She thinks that our future careers and life should come before love and I couldn't stand that. I love her so much, my world revolves around her. We have been dating for about 2.5 years, I only say about because we've had rocky patches but gotten through them in the end. I'm really looking for a girl to answer this one. She says that she needs to find out who she is before then, and that if she doesn't I will have to take a back burner to her. I can't stand loosing her. I believe that life is worthless is you do not love, and are loved by someone else. I would give up all the money in the world for this girl, heck I would take a bullet for her without a second thought. I need to know how best to help her, she has really low self esteem, and can hardly find a good quality about herself even though she is amazingly talented. Please help me. I am a caring guy, I want to be the best boyfriend I can be, and I want to marry this girl one day. Please don't say i'm too young to be thinking about this stuff, I thoroughly believe love knows not age. My question, what do I do to keep ths girl for the rest of my life, and to avoid separating. Thank you in advance to all of you who answer, and I will try to give you an update.
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reader, Vanessa_Twinkle  +, writes (19 August 2011):
Hey,
Its good that your thinking about your future career cos thats important if you want to give her a good life too, i think she´s feeling a bit down and the fact you said she influenced your decision probably made her feel responsible,i can tell you really do love her and i think you should sit down with her and tell her exactly what you typed,i think she doesnt want you to miss out on university because of her. You should probably make a plan together about what you both think you should do as a couple and prepare for it.
Good luck and hope everything goes well :)
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