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writes:dear cupid,im in a relationship with this guy but he is not over his ex.they have been separated for a year and we have been dating for 8.he says he loves me and wants to be with me as i feel the same for him.but this whole hes not over his ex thing is killing me.he sometimes feel down and depressed about it.and sometimes i question my position in our relationship.why am i here?am i the rebound?am i who he really wants?it gets to the point to where i cry sometimes.thinking if his ex comes back to him he will take him back.im so afraid cause i love him.everything is great except this.im so confused and i dont know what to do.but i do feel myself getting distant from him.and i dont like it.will we last?please help me.plese!!!
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reader, paulofessex  +, writes (8 January 2010):
 I would be up front and honest and say to him 'look l feel you are not over your ex, l think you need time and space to decide, its not fair on either of us at the moment, so l suggest we go our seperate ways and hopefully when your ready we may be able to resume the relationship'
Sounds harsh, but no more harsher than him turning round one day in the future that your dumped and he goes back to the ex
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 January 2010):
If he's not over his ex then he's not totally into you. I don't think it can last, because if his ex ever came back, he would surely go back to her. I think you would do better to move on now.
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