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Will I ever be ready for BIG commitments?

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Question - (31 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Most of my boyfriends have been really nice, my current bofriend is no exception. He's the best by far and wouldn't ever hurt me. When we first got together, we had conversations about our future; moving in together, children and marriage. When discussing these in the beginning had no issues whatsoever, but now i can't stand the thought of it all. I know he'd be perfect for all those kinds of things, but i'm really not ready. It feels like the relationship has come too soon, i feel as though i'm too young to make any big plans and although he isn't forcing me to do anything, i've just finished university and i know he'd like to move in together.

At the moment i'm not really sure what to do, he's a little older than me and obviously wants all these big things within the next few years. I'm chickening out, i hate the thought of being tied down and i'm curious about what else is out there. Should we break up? If so will i ever be ready for big commitments? or am i just getting cold feet?

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (1 August 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntHow long have you been together?

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