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Will he lose interest because I'm a virgin?

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Question - (7 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *irgin2931 writes:

I'm 24 years old and still a virgin. I'm not saving it, I just haven't met someone I'm comfortable enough to sleep with yet. Here's my problem. I'm interested in a guy right now who is so kinky he makes hardcore porn look soft. I'm pretty kinky myself, but the fact that kinky stuff turns me on doesn't mean I've DONE it. I want nothing more than to jump on him and do... well... everything he wants. But I haven't told him that I'm a virgin and I'm afraid he'll lose all interest if I'm going to be too much work. What can I do? I know I have to tell him, but I don't ACT like a virgin and he might think I've been tricking him or something... HELP!

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A female reader, froghunter70 United States +, writes (7 July 2010):

I was kinda in this situation. When I first met my husband he had only been with one other girl so. He was practicly a virgin didn't know how to do anything so I took that to my advantage and I tought him how to do stuff the way I like it so now when ever we have sex I for sure get off.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010):

I highly doubt he's going to be turned off by the fact your a virgin. Most guys LOVE that, and being your age and that kinky, as WELL as being a virgin, would probably be a massive turn on for him....

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (7 July 2010):

xanthic agony auntHe might see it as a positive thing. You won't know until you tell him.

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