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female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I'm in a relationship with a guy that has mostly female friends. I dont usually worry that he'll cheat on me, but i am worried he might like grow to like one of them and leave me, i know its a silly thought, but im really insecure about myself and i dont know what he sees in me. How do i deal with this insecurity? Thanks.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Wow you sound exactly like I used to. Not scared he will cheat but just that he will fall in love with one of his friends because you do not know what he sees in you. To get over your insecurity you have to realize everything great about you. It sounds cheesy but it is true. Just list everything you love about yourself and some things you know he loves about you. Realize he is damned lucky to have you, any guy would be. Maybe you are an honest person, maybe you are caring or sweet, or funny, or loyal, or nice, or anything you love about yourself... So many things make you who you are. There are probably many qualities in you that are hard to find in another person. You are special and different from anyone else, you just need to see it. He is with you for a reason ! Learn to love yourself. Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Do you know how long will you live on this Earth or when you die?
Do you know what happens tomorrow?
You do not!
What ever happens, you need to accept reality.
Que !Sera ! Sera ! Whatever happens will happens....
Just live and enjoy what you have and let the future takes care of itself.
You worry for nothing and it will not change anything.
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