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Will he forget me?

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Question - (17 December 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Will he forget me?

I am involved with a man who lives in another city who has his own life but we ring and meet up from time to time!

- The problem is although I am madly in love with him, think of him ALL of the time and keep photos of him near me - I worry that he may forget me because he isn't as madly in love (I don't think) with me nor has he any pics of me and he only rings now and then!!

Do these long distance affairs work? - Especially at Christmas time when we both will be busy with family around!

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A female reader, SoftlyCaress United States +, writes (17 December 2008):

SoftlyCaress agony auntI would be careful with my heart and my body .. You live in different city and do you know what he does or who he sees when you 2 arent together? Ask him whats going on and how he feels about you and chances are he will tell you but im almost willing to bet if he has no pictures of you and doesnt call you there is a reason rather it be a woman or that he isnt in love or so on so be bold just step out and ask him........

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2008):

starfairy agony auntDo you think he feels the same about you?

Would you consider relocating so perhaps you could be together?

Follow your heart and do what makes you happy x

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A male reader, Crafter Bulgaria +, writes (17 December 2008):

Crafter agony auntHave you met?

Cause if you haven't it's a bit spooky to keep his photo.

And to answer your question: No. Most long distance relationships don't last. It's too complicated, time consuming and worthless, because in the end you're here and he's there. Sorry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008):

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Thanks Gina! - I think we're both a bit backwards at coming forwards!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008):

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Don't worry anon! - We havn't got up to the sex yet and at this pace probably won't for a while!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008):

It sounds one-sided. No, I don't think these long distance affairs work. I think he is just too cheap to go to a legal brothel and pay a woman for what he can get for free. I think you could do better.

If you do keep meeting him, be sure to use latex condoms before he gives you AIDS or something.

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