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female
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anonymous
writes:i like this lad who is my brother friend but my brother has now gone to uni and he dnt really talk to him that much any more.so this lad i like has he broke up with his 2 yr gf which was about 6 months ago, he recently went on the rebound.i met him and as ive liked him for ages and we hit it off straight away, he has been talking to me and complimenting me, he has just gone on holiday so i won't see him for a week but i don't no what to do when he comes back.should i give it go with him or will he just use me for sex as he might still be on the rebound, or if i don't i miss my chance completely.does it sound like he is interested?or just gona use me?i like him alot and would love a relationship with him but i can't get into his head and actually see how he feelsplease help!what wud u do? or if u male what do u think he will do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): I think he is interested nd wen he cums bak he will ask u out!
If I woz u I would give it a try then if he did just use me 4 sex I would finish wiv him straight away!!!
Hope this helps!x
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reader, chachacha +, writes (18 April 2007):
It sounds quite unclear what the position is with him.
I guess if he's your brother's friend and your brother went to university, then I suppose he is 18, and you're 16-17, so that all sounds okay.
If he was dating a girl for 2 years, that's quite a long time at his age, but 6 months is more than enough for him to have got over her. I wouldn't worry about whether his next relationship is "on the rebound".
If you've been getting on well, chatting, and he says nice things to you, then maybe he'll ask you out - or maybe you can ask him out - maybe ask if he'd like to go to the cinema or bowling with you, or something.
This point about him "using you for sex" is a little strange. When he gets back from holiday, if he is amenable, you should go on some dates, and you should get to know him much better. There should be no question of sex with him for really quite a long time - you're way too young to be jumping into bed with someone without dating them for a good while first.
A piece of advice - if you want to give a man a signal that you are interested in a long term relationship, do not sleep with them for a good long time! However, if you want them to know that you're just up for a laugh and not interested in the long term, then shag away - but you won't keep them in the long run!
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