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*arshini
writes:A guy whom I liked found out that I like him.He accused me of harrassing him although I didn't do anything. He even threatened to tell my father and stop my brother from attending his music class. Not only that,he showed my messages to his girlfriend. I was embarrass because of that. I didn't want my brother's future to be ruined. So,I begged him not to stop my brother from attending hus class as he wants to be a famous musician. I begged him so many times yet he didn't bother to reply. Then I begged him again and this time he said ok. I was crying and crying at that time and I was having chest pain.I have decided to forget him fully now but recently I found out that he gave my number to his girlfriend. His girlfriend called me and passed the phone to few guys to talk. They disturbed me terribly. I changed my phone number after that. I just don't understand why he did that. Not only that,I found out that when his father was bedridden,this guy who couldn't play his music instrument got angry and threw it at his father who was ill. Not only that,he used to hit his student with hammer on their head if they don't play the instrument properly. He will chase them with knofe and sometimes take the belt and beat them till they feel like fainting. The problem now is how to forget him? Because whenever I try to forget him,there will be something that reminds me about him like words,songs and others. Please help me. Please suggest the best way to foget him and will God punish him for what he did to me? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Darshini +, writes (5 September 2009):
Darshini is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi,thank you so much for the advices. It really help me a lot.
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (4 September 2009):
 So...the person who hits his students with a hammer, chases them with a knife and beats them with a belt is the same person whom you begged to allow your brother entry into his class?
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reader, sarcy24  + ♥, writes (4 September 2009):
 This has to stop. You are tormenting yourself over a boy who doesn't care for you at all. You are going to make yourself ill over this and no God won't punish him. He doesn't sound like a nice person at all and he appears to be threatening and manipulative. Why would you want to be with a man like that. He is with his girlfriend, he is clearly not nice and does not care for you at all apart from being able to get off on humiliating you as much as he can. I know this sounds harsh and you cannot help who you are attracted to but this guy is not for you or worthy of any of this emotion. Stop thinking about him, texting him or having anything to do with him and keep well away from him. If he tries to contact you ignore his advances immediately.
We all have songs, smells, triggers that make us think about persons in the past but try to link these thoughts with the not so nice ways that he has treated you and then they won't create the feelings you still hold for him. Honestly this guy is no good for you so keep well away,any blackmailing or threatening issues go to your parents or a lecturer / the police.
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reader, badAdvice + ♥, writes (4 September 2009):
 Hi, i'm sorry you had to encounter one the lower class members of the male species. You will forget him in time but spending that time with loved ones eg friends, family and ofcourse us will ease the pain much more rapidly. Yes, God will punish him, and if he doesn't, karma will get him.
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