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Wife's teasing wearing leotards has gotten out of hand

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Question - (13 May 2018) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2018)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I asked wife to start wearing shiny leotards around the house; she has a great body and this got me very excited. She really got into it and asked me to buy more and more on ebay; of course I got tighter and more revealing ones. She eventually started wearing them out to go shopping which got me even more excited and on girls night out which wasn't so exciting but she said that she liked the attention she got and it was harmless teasing. I figured that we are both getting something out of this and didnt think twice. Everything was great until she started wearing shiny tights which prevented us from having sex. She says she cant stop teasing, I now have a drawer full of condoms, and I found some in her purse.

How can I change this situation ?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (15 May 2018):

aunt honesty agony auntCan you not remove the tights to have sex? I don't understand why it would stop, is it a case that she doesn't want to have sex with you any more and she is just teasing you?

You need to ask her why she has condoms in her purse, do you think she is cheating on you?

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom + , writes (14 May 2018):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntAlso, since when do tights stop you having sex? You take them off once the teasing has done its job, surely?

As for the condoms, ask.

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A male reader, Code Warrior United States + , writes (14 May 2018):

Code Warrior agony auntI'd start by asking why she has condoms in her purse. Do you guys have sex in situations where she might need them? Or, is her newfound love of the attention she's getting when she wears that stuff on girls night out leading her to consider having sex with other men?

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom + , writes (14 May 2018):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntOpen communication and boundaries you BOTH want.

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