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writes:If you were a man who lost your virginity to your wife and your wife admitted to having one small sexual encounter for 1 mintute or so and told the man to stop and then was managomous to you for the rest of her life would you let it bother you? Idk why its btohering me I am my wifes first love and her mine. But while we talked and stopped talking before we got married she wasnt thinking straight and wanted to get me jealous and did this act and then we got together and have been together ever since. She used a condom and I am the only other man that has done anything else with her and that includes all other sexual acts oral etc. why do I feel upset sometimes?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo we knew each other and she liked me the whole time I was a jerk to her and the day she had the encounter she called me right after and was exteremly upset I was her first kiss made her feel like a jerk and she liked me so much and I pushed her away the first time but now I have her do it shouldn't really matter one incident and loyal to one man for the rest of your life is a rarity in today's world I'm a happy man just was over reacting thank you all.
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reader, LittleMissy  +, writes (22 March 2011):
Well she was honest with you and told you about it so you should let it go. She's with you and loves you, and she could have hidden It, since she wasnt even with you at that time, but she respects you enough to be straight with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): No I wouldn't bother me. That's stupid get over it. Stop thinking about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): Hey bud!
If she had the encounter prior to knowing you, dont worry about it. What she did and what she learned froms aid act led her to you!! If she did it while you were together and was dishonest before marriage, then thats a huge flag and yes does cause for some concern definitely. I think it bothers you because it makes you question her faithfulness to you. How has she reassured you about her loyalty? What actions has she done? Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): Because you are a normal healthy male.
Don't let society tell you that you're the one with a weird problem here. These feelings are useless, painful to you, and potentially harmful to the relationship. But still COMPLETELY NORMAL.
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