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Why would they be stalking me?

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Question - (25 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

has anyone ever heard of someone stalking someone purely for the fun of it-proper stalking, not just checking someones myspace or whatever. I am being stalked by my so called boyfriend and his friends-the boyfriend is NOT obsessed with me-we only see each other once every couple of weeks. I wondered if he was some sort of pimp trying to groom me for prostitution, and mabeye paying his mates to keep an eye on his "investment" but Ive known him for 6 years and he has never asked me to do prostitution outright but he has dropped hits-like telling me he knows this prostitute and she earns loads of money-so it could be that, but I doubt it.

now I am wondering if they could be doing it purely for some sort of sick kick as they seem to enjoy yelling abuse at me in the street and doing the kind of things school bullies do,except they are adults and they follow me and loiter outside my home-these people are extremely immature to the point of being mental-if anyone was sad enough to stalk someone for fun,do these seem like the kind of people who would-please don't just tell me to report it, I know I need to but I have to gather more evidence first and I'm desparate to know what is going on

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

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you don't understand-I NEED to know why their doing this-it's driving me mad not knowing-I don't know wether or not their likely to attack me or what and it's making me paraniod,I can't trust no one and I keep thinking of crazy theorys of why they could be doing this-I would feel a lot more sane if I had an idea of what the real reason could be

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (25 August 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntThis is what you do. When they are at your home call the police and say that you have some trespassers. Stop trying to figure out a reason and stop hanging around these immature people, including the "bf."

Some woman told my mom today she met a guy from church and then she started getting stolen from. It got so bad that one day when he offered her a ride she told him no and he tied her up. Think about your life first, not "why."

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