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writes: I just gave my ex a letter that expressed exactly how i feel about her. I put the definition of love and other definitions of the word and then i said no matter how you define it this is exactly how i feel for you. she called me and said that she thought that it was so sweet. she also said that she has problems with love meaning that it is hard for her to say she loves someone. and that is all because of how all her ex's hurt her so bad. and she said that for us to get back together she has to deal with her problems of commitment. i understand all of this. but i dont know if i should call her and slowly start going back to the way we were or keep giving her space and let her call me. She told he kids that me and her were not going to be spending time with each other anymore, Why would she tell them that?
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reader, Smiler +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Hey there
Honestly i have been at the place your ex is at and its so hard to trust again after a kick in the face but give her the time and space she has requested and let her find her feet without pressure honey ok, i think she told her kids whats happening just to keep them informed of the situation save them jumping to the wrong conclusions, don't take it as personally as you have been, she probably is still into you but needs time and space to reach this decision by herslf you know, I understand that its hard to stand by on the sidelines not seeing someone who youobviously care for deeply but needs must in this sitution babe i'm sorry to say, there is a saying if you love something let it go and if its ment tobe it will come back to you , so follow my advice honey give her time and space to find her feet ok. have faith
I hope my advise helped you a little, Good luck sweetie, if you ever wanna talk or just more advise feel free to email me i'm always here for you ok would love to hear from you again
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Because you are an ex and she feels her kids need to know what the situation is and it is just that, she has not started seeing you again and if she does it maybe that it is a less intense relationship which it sounds like for her would be better.
If she has been badly hurt in the past and has issue`s around loving and being loved then it was best that she told you this no matter how hard that was for her and you.
It means that you can choose to stay friends with her and take things slowly building up trust and love or you can move on.
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