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Why would my ex want sex with me when he loves his girlfriend?

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Question - (20 October 2016) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2016)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *azy H writes:

why would my ex bf want to have sex with me so bad when he loves his girlfriend so much? me and him stay in the same hood, he is always with her but he will text me and tell me he misses sex with me and our relationship was not serious as I thought it was. I found out he was cheating on his late gf with me which he wanted to marry who died on his birthday last year...like what's wrong with him?

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A female reader, Hazy H South Africa +, writes (24 October 2016):

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Hazy H agony auntwell I don't want him in any way.Thanks guys

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2016):

Obviously he does NOT love his girlfriend.

Or you.

I would run. Run fast.

This is just a train wreck in waiting.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (20 October 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntHe wants to have sex with you because he thinks you are an easy target. Don't be. He has a girlfriend, he is not going to leave her for you. Get his number blocked so he cannot contact you anymore. Am sure you don't want to be his booty call.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (20 October 2016):

Tisha-1 agony aunt“Dude, I’m taking screenshots of our conversations, WITH YOUR NUMBER VISIBLE, and if you send me another text about missing sex with me, I will forward them to your girlfriend.”

Why are you still talking to this guy anyway? Block him, delete him, ignore him if you see him around. It’s very sad his fiance died but that doesn’t excuse his behavior.

The reason he does this is because he’s a cheater, he’s looking for sex wherever he can get it and I expect there are lots of women he’s chatting up.

Just remove him from your life if you want to live with integrity.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2016):

Denizen agony auntWhat's wrong with him you ask? He feels empowered by the women who let him.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (20 October 2016):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntHe's hedging his bets. Perhaps the death of his girlfriend made him worry that others close to him will also leave him. If he has more than one person who is close to him, he stands a better chance of not being alone. At least that could be the way he sees it.

The question here should be, why are you putting up with being a booty call? He is not offering to finish with his girlfriend and have a relationship with you again. He seems to cheat as a matter of course. Don't you think you are worth more than this?

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