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Why would he go on 2 dates with me and have sex with me if he wasnt at least somewhat interested in me?

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Question - (26 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *antgrant writes:

I have had a huge crush on this guy for the past 2 years. I am unsure if he likes me at all...we went on 2 dates (I asked him) but nothing seemed to come of it. I was at a 4th of July picnic at his house. He was flirting with me and asked me to stay and hang out after everyone had left. We ended up having sex...he intiated everything, but I wsnted him so much that I went along with the whole thing. A week later I stopped by his house to pick up something I had left behind at the picnic. He had it waiting for me and I was out the door in 3 minutes. A mutual friend says he's nervous around me, but I'm so confused right now I don't know what to do or think. It's been 3 weeks. I texted him and asked him out for lunch, but he didn't respond. I'm trying to move on, but I can't imagine why he'd go out w me twice and want me to stay and have sex with me if he wasn't at least somewhat interested in me. I am 34..he's 36. I'm a math teacher, he's an engineer...neither of us has ever been married, no kids, neither has ever had a serious relationship. 10 years ago he had a huge crush on me, but then I disappeared for 6 years to go back to school. His sister is my best friend since high school. What do I do?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2010):

There's no easy way to say this, but you have been used for sex. The two dates led to sex, and that's all he wanted. In other words, he got what he wanted from it and wants no more.

What do you do? Cut him out of your life.

Stop calling him, stop contacting him, stop chasing. Get back out there with other friends, focus on your work. Do anything to take your mind of him. But please don't bother with him anymore, as you've been well and truly used.

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