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Why would a shy girl appear to be looking through you not at you?

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Question - (17 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

When I gaze into her eyes, it looks as though she is looking beyond me. An example of this is when she was with her friends just chatting it up, but at one point she started to look in my direction with aforementioned smile. Like I said though, her eyes seemed to be going right through me.

Another example happened just last night. She was getting a glass of water and was heading to bed. Before she did though I could see that she was staring in my general direction. Nonetheless, when I looked at her, once again it appeared that she was looking beyond me (the only thing behind me this time was a wall). Then she began looking at her mom, who she walked over to to give her a hug. Why does she keep doing this?

In the past she would mimic me, ask people she knows questions about me, show concern for me if she thinks I’m in trouble, her friends act differently around me, sometimes she blushes around me, etc.

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A female reader, GettingHelp South Africa +, writes (18 April 2010):

My guess is she likes you :)

Some people have that glazed over, looking-through-everyone look or if you're like me - i tend to fantasize. Not sexually, but what it would be like to have whoever I'm looking at madly in love with me, to have them bring me roses. etc. etc. But then I am a little mad.

If you like her (and I'm talking more than friends stuff here) show her a little more interest in her, more personal interest and see how it goes. If she's shy chances are if you ever wanted a relationship with her you would have to make a lot of the first moves.

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