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Why? Why does she go all shy after we make out?

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Question - (17 November 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, *ooney writes:

Hey You all.

So there's this girl. She's really cute and she's liked me ever since we met she loves my eyes they are hazel and she loves them.

After we met we later stopped talking and i barely saw her anymore, but now all of a sudden i found her again on FaceBook.

We talk on there a lot now.

Occasionally I compliment her but never really see each other in person that much.

so anyways i finaly get to see her in person and we start seeing each other more now again.

I found out where she goes and things like that.

So this Day at college i Caught up with her On the Football field and we were sitting on the bleachers and feelings started coming out . and i could read her body language.

She kept leaning on me and so i start holding her hand and i had my arm around her . and my head on hers and i just started flirting with her and we end up finding ourselves alone and i hold her hand and we made out and we did 3 times in a row and it felt great.

But now she told people we are going out and we are not but i haven't told her that because i like her too but she is so shy.she turns around and stops when she sees me and sometimes she will cover her face with her binder just so i cant see her but i still do because its obvious we like each other.

But she's shy everytime i try to talk to her she walks away smiling and blushing and i know its cute but i want to talk to her.

any advice and please help me give me some reasons why shes shy . please and thank you very much

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A female reader, MsSociallyAukward  United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2012):

She really likes you! trust me! just reassure her and make her feel more comfortable around you. She is only shy because she likes you that much

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A female reader, Trinklett Canada +, writes (17 November 2012):

Trinklett agony auntShe's just shy around you because her feelings are all over the place when she sees you. Ask her out on a date over the phone and tell her you really like her. Maybe she's shy about making out with you who knows. When you do get to go out, try to find out times when you can be together like meeting up for lunch breaks. That way, she should get used to being around you. Hope this helps.

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A female reader, fi_the_tree United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2012):

fi_the_tree agony auntIt may be something as simple as that she's never had a boyfriend or you're the first person she's ever made out with. It's clear that she likes you if she's telling people that you're going out.

So why not go for it? See if you can get her on her own more often, gives her time to get used to being with you. Her confidence around you will grow all the time, soon she won't be walking away blushing.

Good luck :)

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