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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend told me he was in love with me. After three weeks he sent roses to my house, met my family, made a big fuss over me.A month later told me he didn't think we were on the same page. we broke up, but still talked and saw each other until one night i saw him with his ex girl friend. he swore they were just friends and now they are back together and he changed his number on me. i don't understand?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (14 March 2012):
 Worldywise is right - he was probably trying to make his ex jealous, or you were a rebound in his attempt to get over his ex, but when the ex was interested again he jumped at the chance to be with her.
I'm sorry for what happened to you, that is pretty awful and he is a complete jerk for doing this. He clearly is a player who has no respect for women, you have had a lucky escape really!
Maybe learn a couple of lessons for next time:
1. If a guy says he is in love with you after only a couple of weeks, chances are he either doesnt know what love is or is playing games. You dont fall in love that quickly, relationships should be a slow and steady build up to the L word and that should never be rushed.
2. If he has only recently split up from an ex be wary - I personally would never get involved with a guy who has just come out of a serious relationship, it would need to be at least 3 months since he split up with the ex.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012): He was playing you, probably trying to make his ex girlfriend jealous, it worked and they are back together.
I hope you can get over this soon, he's not worth your time even thinking about him. He did wrong by you,very wrong.
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