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female
age
16-17,
anonymous
writes:Today i walked into school and i usually see my boyfriend and we usually hug and kiss and whatever. So, i walked into the courtyard, where there's a group of our friends, and i saw him with this freshman girl, flirting his ass off...she started clinging onto him and playing around and he didn't seem bothered either. He turns around, looks at me and then turns back around to play with her, not even saying 'hi' to me. Then, after like 10 minutes...as if i'm the last thing on his mind, he walks over to me, gives me a pathetically weak hug and goes somewhere else. I then ask him..."are you mad at me or something?" and he replies "no, i just am not feeling well today",and i'm like.."you're feeling well enough to play with her?" and he just shrugged. I have no idea what's going on. That freshman girl...who he always flirts with..he always calls her bad names..as in like "oh why is this stupid girl around me all the time?" yet, he's being a hypocrite..when i actually see him with her. She likes him, and she KNOWS he has a girlfriend, yet she doesn't seem to respect that. I don't know what to do, this has got me all worked up. Why is he doing this? There was nothing wrong before..like yesterday..everything was fine..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): walk away from this! you dont deserve to be treated like this!
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reader, growing  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 I read the other two answers but i have a different take on this.I am 90% sure that he wasn't playing with her but he was playing with you.i mean ,there's something fishy going in his mind.he was just making you feel jealous and he succeeded in that.so just wait for sometime and show a contrasting behaviour on doing him sumthing of same kind as he did today and then read his face.
Be a smart ass and that will do the trick.
Let me know what exactly was the scene and how far my judgement was right.
hope he is really not dumping you!!!!
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reader, mylonleyself + ♥, writes (6 May 2008):
 It seems to me like he was just having a good time with the girl. If he is your boyfriend you shouldn't worry much about it, don't make a big deal about things like that. You could've gone and greet him as his girlfriend while he was playing with the girl. Or when he told you he wasn't feeling alright, you could've asked what was wrong and try to make him better, or you could have play with him a little. Don't make it a big of a deal, that is all I am saying, guys sometimes don't think about how we women feel, and do things that bother us without knowing or caring.
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reader, Jen86  +, writes (6 May 2008):
If he's like it tomorrow dump him. He's not worth the time of day.
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