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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Why are the women I work with so nasty? Urgh?I recently got a new job and this woman who I work with she's been there for a while.She's never liked me or spoken to me and when I ask her a question she makes a very rude face (as if to say why are you talking to me) so I don't speak to her.She's lied about me twice to managers on things I didn't do. She talks about me really loudly but I just ignore her but when ever I look up the woman is watching me. Should I cut my eyes at her or watch her the same way she's watching me?My manager spoke to her and she lied and said I looked at her up and down on my first day so she can't deal with me. She's lied!My manager said to ignore her but her and this girl (we started together) that doesn't like me watch me all the time.I love my job I'm very good at it but if this continues I might have to quit even though I need the money.Thanks.xI'm a girl btw.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013): Must think for a minute, would a happy satisfied and fulfilled their life person would act in such a manner toward another person. She is miserable and so another girl. May be you are prettier, younger, happier who knows.
But all you can do is feel sorry for them, and act friendly unless they are doing harm to you, and it will go away. People get tired of hating long term
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013): Some women are very insecure and it ranges in a variety of ways. It could be a number of factors. Insecure about the fact you may be better looking than her. Insecure about you possibly are better at your job and she feels threatened by that. She may just be a b**ch all the way around who knows.
The Best advice I can give you is to document all of these issues. Putting things on paper goes a lot further than words alone. Present it to upper management. Also, kill her with kindness. Smile every time she looks in your face. Let her know that you're not swayed by her childish antics. Best of luck to you.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (2 August 2013):
 Are u very attractive? Big breasts? Very confident maybe? Perhaps shes jealous of you in some way. I can nearly guarantee its personal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013):
This is intimidation and bully, keep a journal for the two weeks.. If she and this other person continue with the same behaviour, go back to your manager.. After all they must do something about this .. Suggest a face-to-face meeting to air any misunderstanding between you two, as you are more than willing to get things back on track but you cannot work within this kind of environment as is..
They must take your concerns seriously and work with you both to an amicable ending ..
Do not give up your job .. Your stronger than you think, and you will get through this ..
Take care sweetie c
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