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writes:Ok so im a quiet type of girl until i know the person.There is this guy in our school.During the first day of our class he was sitting with another girl as there was no other place left.I was sitting behind them with my friend.Later that day our teacher changed the seating arrangements and he was sitting next to me.He later says the boy sitting in front of him that previously too he was sitting next to me when it was actually another girl.Anyway a couple of girls started taking interest in him and asked his biodata which is in his diary.He told them something as they were not leaving him and then he turned towards me and said he lied to them.He showed me the details in his diary and the girls snatched it.He used to get me punished along with him when we didn't do our homework or when he is asked some question.He used to turn back and smile at me when going out of the class and i used to smile back for courtesy sake.But he went and said i smile at him to a girl i talk to,though she is not from our class.Later for some reason his place was changed by teacher and we never spoke,but he continued speaking to the girl that showed alot of interest in him,going to her place and speaking to her,she pulling his hand and saying him to pull her hand,he doing what was said.He only behaves nice to her but rude to other girls in class including me because once he shouted at me thinking i was laughing at him but retaliated as i was laughing at someone else.I started ignoring him from then on.but he giggles at me when we happen to walk into each other accidentally in the hall way turnings while he usually scolds other girls if the same happens with them.He giggles at me when a teacher scolds me because of him.His friend once teased him about me and the girl who is interested in him and again he giggles.during an event we were serving refreshments,this guy was there in the group that i was asked to serve,he was giggling instead of taking the snacks.I was so irritated.he behaves so nice to that girl who was interested in him,maybe he is interested in her who cares,but why does he behave like that with me.its so rude. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont like him,its just no one behaves like that with me so i was kind of disturbed.Teacher scolding me because of him happened only once and even i was at fault,just a little though.but if he said the truth to her both of us would have been severly punished.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2014): I think you're mostly irritated; because he likes another girl.
I don't see how you can get into so much trouble because of him. As if the teachers can't see what's going on. Have you ever thought about explaining to the teacher after class what is going on? No one can change anything but the teacher. We don't sit in class with you.
As for the boy. Totally ignore him in class like all the other girls do. He knows you like him. You're the only one who pays him any attention; which is why he bothers you so much. It's not because you're so quiet. If you were, why are the teachers picking on someone who is normally so quiet? Makes no sense.
Explain to the teacher he is harassing you in class and getting you into trouble. If you aren't going to do that, then put up with it. As for the other girl he likes, you'll just have to get over that too. He knows it makes you jealous and he's messing with your head. Like Honeypie says he's an immature clown. If all his attention from you dries up, he'll go somewhere else for it. Teasing and irritation is what you get when you like bad boys.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (20 September 2014):
 Ask to move seat away from him. The guy is a bully. AND YOU're the one getting in trouble OVER him.
Just ask for another seat.
He sounds like an immature clown.
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