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writes: I just can't have good sex. I have had two partners in my lifetime and with both, the penis can't stay inside of me. I don't know if this is normal. If someone can tell me what's going on, it would be great. Reply to this Question
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reader, thebestof the rest +, writes (2 June 2006):
try with one more it could be normal if you dony want to try it again then go to your local doctor but if your to embaressed talk to a friend and tell then your other friend has been having this problem and then you wont be so embaraased about it
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (2 June 2006):
 You need to relax and take your time. None of us are automatically good at sex, and none us now straight away what works for us. it takes time and experimentation and a caring partner. You probably without knowing it tense it when the time occurs resulting in the penis being unable to penetrate as easily. Try different positions, include more foreplay, even play on your own and see what works best for you. In time and with the right partner, sex will become better. Its like rididng a horse, if you fall at first, you keep getting back on till you get better at it. Dont let this downhearten you too much and learn to relax a bit more, there is no rush and the more you do worry it will become more of an issue. Take it easy, and explore!
Take care
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reader, smeedle +, writes (2 June 2006):
 Maybe because you are not fully relaxed and turned on your vaginal muscles push him out, try and use lubricant and get really turned on with loads of foreplay before hand and then relax and just enjoy it.
If this does not help then maybe you need to talk things over with your doctor.
Remember the more you practice the more likely it is that sex will get better and relaxation is the key.
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