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writes: Why is it that the men I want, want me but dont do anything or enough about it, and the men that i dont want, want me and treat me like a princess?Im beginning to think theres something wrong with me in particular, its been happening a lot in the last few years. Why is it that the ones who i really like, say they like me (love me even) but can not sort themselves out enough to be a decent boyfriend and show me they care through their actions, not just their words. There have been a couple of guys who i unfortunately just dont fancy, who go out of their way for me and treat me so well and want me, but the feelings dont happen for me. It was annoying enough before when the men i really liked didnt like me back, fair enough, but when they say they do like me but dont do anything about it, it frustrates me so! Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (1 October 2006):
 i went through the same thing and adventually i gave up and thought screw men ive had enough! then several months later a man 21years older than me walked into my local pub and he was stareing all night and i thought what ever, so he asked me out at the end of the night and i said sorry no so then after he was chaseing me for 4-6months and i took the chance and im still with him today his perfect in every way! i geuss what im trying to say is it comes to those who wait, and dont give up on looking cus 1 day when you do find that person you want youll thank your self for not giveing up because youll have the most precious thing as an acheivement for trying! and thats a big award!
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 I think almost if not all of us can admit to feeling like this at some point in our lives, it's common and highly frustrating but you can't change the ones that treat bad and you can't force yourself to feel something different towards the ones that would do anything for you no matter how much you want to.
Eventually someone will come into your life that you really like that will also treat you right and although that doesn't help you now everything you go through is a learning curve and helps us to love and appreciate things when we finally get them.
Good luck :o)
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reader, camille +, writes (1 October 2006):
 It's called sod's law my dear! Don't worry because one will come along and tick all your boxes. It's hard right now but when you meet a guy you like, try not to assume he's gonna be just like the rest of the men you meet. Give them a chance and they may surprise you. I wish I could offer more help and some answers, but I wish you luck!
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