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Why is she not able to move on and forget him? How can I help her out?

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Question - (8 June 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2012)
A male India age 30-35, *thz writes:

Its been about a month now we talk to each other share things i even went to her place somedays before and we kissed each other for d first time.. Its been about a week she broke up with her bf but when she talks to me, she cries and says that she missez her bf! I try to console her bt it doesnt last long.. Its getting very difficult 4 her to move onn..! But i know that its best for her to move on..

I really Dont know how can i help her out and make her forget his ex?

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A female reader, Problemsolveraditi India +, writes (8 June 2012):

My suggestion would be that you talk to your friend and ask her to tell 5 good thing and 5 bad thing about her her ex and tell her that she had some happy memories with him and some sad ones too..And this is life..Tell her that she broke up with him because he was not good enough for her and she is perfect in every sense..She might still have a soft spot for him but make her feel special give her flowers be the one to give her a shoulder to cry on...love her and in a short span of time she will realize that the person who loves her the most is with her always....but don't expect her to completely forget that guy in a week or 2 it will take some time....time heals wounds the fastest...but if you truly care for her be with her...

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A male reader, Athz India +, writes (8 June 2012):

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Athz agony auntThey have been in a 5 yr relation. She doesnt want me to go away from her.. She loves me dearly but says that she is not able to give me the place in her heart that his ex had..! What should i do? I need some advice.. :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012):

It's not that easy to forget someone, and a week is no time at all really. Try to distract your friend from always thinking about the ex and turn the conversation to something nice. Hope this helps.

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