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Why is she kissing me if she thinks we can't be together?

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Question - (9 February 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my best friend is a girl and i have liked her for some time. she knows that i have liked her, and told me she cant see us together because she dosent want to lose a good friend, ova the last week or so she has become more flirty with me and we have shared a number of kisses now and im so confused why she is kissing me if she thinks we cant be together. help me plz!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

hey!!

i hav a friend who likes me, im a girl and hes a boy. he has liked me for a number of months, over a year infact. i can admit i occasionally flirt with him and give him hugs and i say to him its because i dont want to lose a good friend aswell i think maybe she is just trying to see what it would be like. i say you ask her. maybe even have a joke about it saying something oh youve became very flirtasious lately or something!! hope this helped. if you need help add [email address blocked]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007):

this girl is lovin the attention she is getting from u, she obviously likes u but keep your distance and don't be too full on or she will keep bein like this.

Next time she trys to kiss you, stop her and tell her you like her but you're serious and are sick of being messed about, clearly state how you are and tell her straight, she needs to know. best of luck

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntAsk her straight out if she's changed her mind. Tell her the offer is still there if she wants to take you up on it but if she still feels the same then the kissing is out of order because it's raising your hopes. To be honest sounds to me like she's been thinking about what you said and is coming round to the idea but be warned... she's right. This will probably screw up your friendship forever.

CD

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A female reader, here_2_help United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2007):

here_2_help agony aunti think she is telling herself that because she donsent want to lose you. let her know how you feel my bet is she feels the same way. the way i see it respect turns into friendship and friendship turns to love. whats a reletionship? a friendship that grows and two bodys become one in sex and all that comes from a spark of friendship. tell her that you love her thats if it is love not lust.

hope this helps xx

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A female reader, Pink_Fairy234 +, writes (9 February 2007):

Pink_Fairy234 agony auntsome girls change their minds. why don't you ask her why she's kissing you? another possible reason she's flirting with you is because she wants another guys attention. I don't know but if you don't feel comfortable kissing a girl who has rejected you, you have to talk to her. message me so I know how it goes.

good luck

pink fairy

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