A
male
age
13-15,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid: i am a boy 12 yers of age and i have a girlfriend who has been acting real pissy lately... The first time we went out, she acted as if she was the nicest most loving person in the world... But after she broke up with me in the summer of 07. we tried going out agian... The weird part is is that she has been more angry to everyone around her including me... she gets mad at me for the stupidest reasons and is always insulting me... only once in a while will she show her love toward me. .dear cupidwhat is really going on here? i don't want to dump her, because that would ruin our 6 year friendship. and i don't want to break her heart. and i've been waiting so long to kiss her.what is wrong with her? how should i fix it? or what should i do?thanks...p.s. i am old enough to date so don't leave spam and say I'm not.
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reader, lilemostar  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 First of all, I admire you for seeking help with this because I remember at your age most boys would instantly end it with a girl who was behaving out of order to them!Secondly. At your age bracket, girls are just entering into puberty meaning her hormones will be all over the place with the start of her periods etc. This may mean she has mood swings and she'll end up venting her moods on you. Dont worry about this because as her cycle settles, her mood swings will hopefully cool down as well. Not meaning they'll stop but they wont be as severe.Thirdly, maybe if she's already started puberty and has had got her periods then maybe its something going wrong at home and she's venting her fears in the wrong way through anger. If this is the case sit down and talk to her. Explain to her that you dont mean to intrude and if she doesnt want to talk about it she doesnt have to but that your always there for her. Dont try and figure out how to solve her problems because most girls need their privacy. Just explain to her that yours always there for her. If she opens up to you, be prepared to help her. If she doesnt then just hope she will. Dont dump her. But if things dont get better then you may have to consider it.Good Luck!
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reader, Emmy-Lou +, writes (22 March 2008):
 There are two answers to this question.
Firstly, she may just have started her periods, which for any girl is very stressful.
Secondly, she may be having some problems at home and needs to release her anger and is doing it in the wrong way.
Don't make any rash decisions, sit her down and talk to her. She is bound to tell you what her problem is, but be prepared for the worst!
Hope this helps and good luck.
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