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Why is my ex still ringing and texting me when he got another girl pregnant?

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Question - (24 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2011)
A female Ireland age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone, as before i have explained my story which was a relationship with my ex which lasted for 4years, and i found out he had cheated and got another girl pregnant, but yet he still said he could not loose me for the world and he loves me. i have tried to cut off all contact but he keeps ringing and texting my phone asking me am i okay and gets bad if i dont txt back, the other night i was out with friends and was having a few drinks i looked at my phone and had 8 messages from him i just rang and said what is wrong and i got oh i love you and miss you and of course he cried me a river asked me where i was soo he could come and talk to me, anyways i need advice because im falling into a visus circule of deppression and dont want to do anything, it upsets me soo much and knowing that we had plans to settle down soon but yet thats going to be with someone else is heart braking for me, why is he still ringing and texting ugghh im trying everything to block it out all i have been doing is crying i just want my life back... please help any advice will be truly greatful

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (26 March 2011):

The Realist agony auntI strongly recommend staying strong and not replying to anything he sends you. It sounds to me that he only wants back with you so he doesn't have to face the pregnant girl and I don't think you want to be in some sort of triangle family situation. By not replying he will eventually leave you alone or give him one last message saying that in order for you to get on with your life he needs to be out of it. It will be tough and if he gets to be too much, which I doubt he'll be some sort of stalker but the police can always set a restraining order.

I know it sounds harsh but at your age you don't need to be dealing with some guy and his new born while having all the drama that will come from him and this other girl.

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