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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:So i've been hanging out with my ex on and off on the weekends. Things are good between us. taking things slow etc.. i still care about him.. and he cares about me... anyway last time we talked was tues.. he texed me somthing.. i tried to call him on thurs to say hello how r u but his phone is off. he never shuts his phone off.. thats why i'm surprised. and it's off today so 2 days his phone has been off.. thats not like him.. things have been going great between us. he wanted to go on a trip with me (his idea) last time we hung out. So i wrote him a e-mail saying hi how are you? hope all is well.. tried to call you the other day byt your phone is off. Never replied back!!! Whats up with him? I know he's alive i saw his car at his job. I just don't Understand. he's never had it shut off and for 2 days? Why is he doing this to me? the last time we hung out it's been so fun!! Help any ideas???
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reader, Jaydee76 +, writes (17 July 2010):
There are TONS of possible explanations as to why he isn't answering, I wouldn't jump to conclusions so soon. This happened to me once and I just got mad at him and stopped trying to contact him. I saw him like two days later and heexplained that he was at the hospital with his grandmother who was dying of cancer, I felt terrible :(
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 He is your ex now so you don't have the luxury of checking up on him. This is why I don't think ex's being friends works there's too much history and baggage there for the friendship to ever be anything but complicated.
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