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Why is he ignoring me these days??

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Question - (5 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, anonymous writes:

Hey,

I like this lad and he liked me too at one point (he was telling me he did). He flirted with me a load, texted me almost every day and we would stay texting four hours and he used to come round to my house aswell. Nowadays, though, we hardly talk, the texting has dwindled out and he just doesn't seem to have time for me anymore. I don't want to ask him why because I might sound obsessed/possesive. A few weeks back, I was out with my friends and I saw him with other girls, who are his age (he is older than me by almost two years)and he was flirting with them like he used to do with me. He actually saw me and just looked right through me.

Im so confused and keep asking myself if I've done something wrong to him, but I can't think of ANYTHING that I've done thats wrong. Fair enough if he doesn't want to hangout anymore, but he could at least text to say "hi" since thats what we've done for the past 6 months or so. I know you can't say without knowing him, but any ideas on why he might not talk to me anymore? Is it my age or is he just bored of me?

Thanks x

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (5 August 2008):

scrazy agony auntIt sounds like he's lost interest and moved on, honey. Your best bet is to forget about him and do the same - move on. He sounds like a bit of a prick anyways, not even having the decency to say hi to you.

XO

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 August 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntSorry but it looks like he's lost interest. Don't take it too hard, teenage boys can be terribly fickle. I'm sure it was nothing you said or did that put him off, guys are like that. Just stay busy with your friends, you'll be fine honey.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (5 August 2008):

Honeygirl agony auntSweetie, sounds like he has lost interest in you. Best you carry on with your life and forget about him. If he doesnt even have the manners to greet you after all that you two have chatted about.. well then maybe hes not such a hot catch after all!

Honeygirl

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