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sweetansexy62
writes: why are men horrible?,right now im so unhappy and long to be with the man i love,he is my soulmate,our txts always cross paths at the same time,that means we think of each other at exactly the same time,even though were miles apart.lately we have been arguing a lot over nothing and i always go running to him to resolve things,but this time i am not as i am being punished for lies told against me an he chooses not to believe me,but believe his informers instead,cant he see they are jealous and want him to be lonley and miserable,we have a fantastic sex life and a good life in general,we do a lot together and enjoy being together so why let other people stand in your way of happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): Have you actualy challenged him on these lies? I cant understand why people are like this.In reality,when told things about a loved one,we instantly believe what we are told,until the dust has settled.Usually only to feel bad about believing in the first place.You need to find out what he`s been fed,and if he still doesnt believe you,then make up some lies you`ve been told,for example a certain girl or ex girl he has been seen with.Eventualy admit it was made up,and he now knows how you felt being guilty without trial.You obviously love him.Read between the lines here.The fact that he`s reacted badly to these lies shows he loves you.He`s probably hurt aswell,that`s why he`s reacting like this.
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reader, lucky lynne  +, writes (1 October 2006):
 If you have been arguing a lot,then this could be the straw that broke the camels back.It could be that what he`s heard has confirmed suspicions.You say men are horrible,why are all men horrible?Is this because history is repeating itself or have you got a dislike to them anyway?Either sort it immeadiately or move on.If he doesnt trust you,its better you find out why.
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 If he is choosing to believe these lies then until he realises that your not in the wrong here and none of it is true then theres nothing you can do.
Maybe something they said hit on something he was already worried about and therefore causing him to believe it, either that or he was already wanting the relationship over and using this as an excuse to end things with you.
I would just hang in there, if he really does know you that well he will come to realise that these are lies and come running with his tail between his legs.
Is there anyway of you proving they are lies?
Good luck :o)
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