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Why is he bothering?

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Question - (6 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

Some time ago I mentioned that I had met this young man on a cruise ship who was a singer-MUCH younger than em and I told you he kept eyeing me up and everytime I saw him his eyes were on me-well a few months down the line he is still e mailing me and today said he has another contract on the ship for 8 months and will be busy for a few weeks but he will e mail em again when he gets time.

Its nice hearing from him but id have thought if he wasnt interested he would jsut stop e mailing me. If he just wants to be friends why bother? He knows how much I like him and I thought he liked me too. My friend thinks he might have signed the contract before I went back on the ship again-thinking he was never going to see me again. If he is so busy which he will be learning the new shows why bother to e mail me at all?

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (6 April 2011):

dirtball agony auntBecause he likes you. How much, or what he's hoping to get out of it, it's hard to say.

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A female reader, cupidus Canada +, writes (6 April 2011):

cupidus agony auntAsk him, what are you waiting for?

Why ask complete strangers for your answers?

email him now and say

"why are you so interested in me"

If you think that is a loaded question and you think

you will be putting your dignity on the line.

Then maybe you should be checking your dignity, not us, not him. Maybe the real question is

Why do I think I'm not good enough to be enjoyed and involved with other people?

And you should come up with at least 10 answers before you blame it on your age. Age has ZERO to do with your character which developed at the age of reasoning around 5.

You can't carry on in the shallow end of the pool.

You'll have to dive deep, risk drowning, in order to get onto the beach. Think Normandy, it's terrifying being alive, more terrifying when your about to loose it.

Live Dangerously, and with Valour..

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