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writes:A quick question for everyone.I have a school age daughter who has learning disabilities and needs extra lessons at home. Why would my married male friend ask me if I have to stay with her when she has her lessons? Why would he be interested in my availability? Why would it matter if I have to stay with her or not? Why would he even care and why is he asking? Seems pretty personal a question to me... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): He was probably just making small talk. It is a perfectly reasonable and expected question in such a situation.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 August 2011):
 it could be a zillion reasons.
next time he asks you ask him back "why do you want to know?" that should get you the answer you need
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reader, mrg123  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 I dont know you know, I can imagine asking that question in the course of perfectly innocent conversation. He isn't necessarily inquiring over your availability is he? I guess it depends on the context of what he said, but I would be weary of reading too much into something. It's a question somebody could well ask who was just taking a friendly interest in something, not necessarily an indicator of ulterior motives.
Good luck :).
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