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writes:Hi, ladies and males it does'nt matter both can answer my question please. Well I have been dating this guy I love alot sometimes I love him like a water overflowing in a glass! My problem is that it's been almost 2years and Iam not his woman yet; and over and over he knows this I want his hand in marriage I've been threw alot with him and I do alot for his personal needs as well as fincial he say's he is going to help and give back to me. I believe him! I did mess around and seen other people as well as him but, what happen was in the begininng his was deploying back to iraq and I was just getting out of relationship and I was scared so I told him he's going to be gone 3weeks anyway so he back fired and he have'nt forgave me. Regardles he been with me the whole time but, Iam waiting on him to tell me he loves melike we do everything together.Why you think he have'nt told me he wants me to be his woman? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): he sounds a lovely guy. I think he sees you as 'the one' and i think he is 'the one' for you, as long as you dont get impatient and feisty and demanding that he conform to what you want to align with what you think is required to demonstrate commitment. Except i think he is already committed to you in every way. Except he has not said it in words. He faces grave dangers in Iraq, maybe marriage is not yet on his agenda because he is worried about his mortality in Iraq. He even forgave you for messing up. Some men express their feelings by demonstrating their feelings through their behaviour, not their words. And that sounds like a careful honourable guy to me. He wants to see that you can demonstrate your constancy and honourable intentions too by not being unfaithfull again.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (7 November 2010):
 As in his wife? Probably because he's not ready to commit and you're being pushy about the subject. Have you two talked about the future? Calm down, constantly bringing it up isn't going to make him propose any faster. You have to slow down and smell the roses..if it's meant to be he'll propose within time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): I'm going to be blunt and honest here. If you have been seeing each other for 2 years without a "relationship" title, you're not going to get one. Who knows why? Maybe he's a commitmentphobe, maybe he's using you, maybe he just likes having no real strings attached. Sorry, but its time for you to move on so you can have a real relationship with someone who actually wants one. Good luck!
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