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Why has she added me on MSN but then blocks my calls?

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Question - (2 November 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, *igmike1 writes:

Well tonight my ex came on her msn thing and added me to her msn account, but I don't get it she blocks me all the time from calling her when I got back home. So why did she add me on her msn account in is not calling me and talking to me I dont get this at all. Does she still want me I dont get this.?

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A male reader, Bigmike1 United States +, writes (2 November 2010):

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Well she is updating her msn thing like every 5 mins in she was just on in off my jtv page I made I think. It says working out at the gym but why would she put it up every 5 mins? Maybe she does not know it goes on msn it says its off of her via facebook thing idk what do you think is going on ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010):

It sounds like she has added you to her Msn because its convenient that she can talk to you when it suits her and HER only! but she does not want you calling her whenever you feel like it, she does not sound like a genuine person, would you really want to be friends with someone like this? If i were you i would not bother Msning her, why should you, when its just on her terms.She is the one calling the shots her, she is being really selfish.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010):

I think email her and ask her why she has added you. If you do not get an answer - you have your answer. x maybe it is her way of trying to get back in touch. xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010):

~BLOCK HER~ She's a gamer..bad bad bad news.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (2 November 2010):

AuntyEm agony auntShe sounds like she is playing games. Msn accounts are dangerous, if you add someone, they can look at your profile, see your pictures and messages and see who your adding. Maybe it's her way of spying on you. If she thinks you still have feelings for her, maybe she just wants to make sure you don't move on too quickly so she can keep getting an ego boost out of you.

I know this all sounds a bit paranoid, but people do weird stuff and if she really wanted to be back with you or talk to you, she'd take your calls. E mail her and ask her why she's added you, if you don't get an answer then remove her and change your account so she can't 'view' you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010):

It could be that she is interested in talking to you but is still not sure. So she may have added you, but may need more time to consider whether to talk to you on MSN or not. Maybe she is thinking of what to say. I think it is still too early to know exactly why she has added you, especially if she is not talking to you. I think you should give it more time and see if she contacts you or not. In the meantime, try to carry on with your life as normal, just incase she doesn't get in touch.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010):

Hey!

I think she's playing a game with you. I find it immature and awfully childish and u def dont deserve that. Id be confused too. I'll advise not to get mixed up with her. Good luck.

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