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Why has my friend become so distant?

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Question - (8 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2009)
A female United States age 22-25, *b47977 writes:

My old guy friend that I used to hang out with a lot stopped talking to me and is ignoring me. I see him every day and he only ignores me and acts differently to me not his friends. It started out that he liked me and everyone told me he did. Then I started having feelings for him. Now all of a sudden he talks to me on rare occasions and when we went to the mall as a field trip he was staring at me like he was interested. I don't know if this guy likes me or is playing around? I just want to know how we can be friends again? Its not like I pressured him into a relationship with me! I only treated hinm like a friend but his family on the other hand wants to meet me so badly because I'm his friend. They have been trying to fix me up with him from the start.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009):

you just need to be spit it out and tell him how u feel

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A female reader, mb47977 United States +, writes (8 June 2009):

mb47977 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for your advice! It means a lot that people give good advice online.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

He is probably just hesitant about getting into a relationship because he dosen't want to ruin the friendship. My advice is to just talk to him openly and honestly about it and then go from there.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

He might have somebody else in his life but still have you in his dream.

You need to forget about him. try something new in your life as to get yourself buzy. Little by little it's gona end up like he never exist.

stop feeding your mind with something impossible, life is too short . If he wanted you,he wouldnt let you have all these assumptions.

Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

Does he know you harbor these feeling for him? If so he may feel differently than he used to and if not then he must be the shy type when it comes to this type of thing. Don't give up hope just slowly work your way back into his life and make sure he knows how you feel without pressure or he may feel uncomfortable. Hope i helped ;)

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