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Why don't I have enough self respect to walk away?

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Question - (14 February 2016) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2016)
A female India age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I think he wants me to break up with him. I have been with him for 6 months.He doesn't like confrontations.so he is trying to get me to break up with him.

He openly goes out at nights. He is on Craigslist sleeping around.One of my friends set up a fake account to catch him and he replied with his pictures.He doesn't even hug me or kiss me.

Now the big question is he is getting me to walk away from him.why don't I walk away? Why don't I have enough self respect to walk away?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (15 February 2016):

Tisha-1 agony auntWhy do you think you can't just walk away? Is this the type of treatment you have been conditioned to expect and accept?

Do you have friends and family who love and support you? Ask them for help and just block this walking STI for good!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (15 February 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntGain some confidence, tell yourself you deserve better than this, be kind to yourself. It will hurt but you will get over him and meet someone who actually cares about you. Stay with this guy and your confidence will keep dropping, you will have no self esteem left.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2016):

Doesn't matter what he wants you to do.. he sent naked pics to ur friend! he failed the test! cut him off completely.. Change ur number and deleted his.. that way u wont be able to contact him even if u want to.. Remember, even if u go back to him.. u will never be able to trust him ever again!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (14 February 2016):

Honeypie agony auntSo break up! If you can't do it in person do it over the phone, text and then block/delete his number.

You can do it. IF you really want to end things with him.

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A female reader, NORA B Ireland +, writes (14 February 2016):

You have in fact answered your own question.-Why dont i walk away.Sometimes we hope things will get better.sometimes we get into a rut,sometimes we dont want to make the effort of starting fresh.Maybe we are still in -love.Just know you are being very hard on yourself by staying with him.However to make sure Sure what he is thinking-Ask him straight out-he owes you that much.If he refuses a answer,my question to you .Why do you want to stay,answer this to youself and maybe you will find a answer.Kind reguards.NORA B.

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