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Why don't I get wet anymore?

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Question - (13 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2009)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a girlfriend, and we've had a very good sex life.

I am straight, I admit, but I love her so much, and her body does turn me on. (Bi, I guess?)

Anyway, I've gotten wet just by using falaces, and doing the act on her, or even thinking about it!

But now, I don't. I get a rush when near her, and the area where I would have a penis tingles. I even get the sensation of being wet, but when I feel, I'm so dry that it's sticky.

I feel so bad because she believes that I don't enjoy it anymore.

I do, even if I do get a bit tired (as I lack the funds for a strap on, as of yet and hold it between my legs, it's still an amazing feeling doing her.

So why is it so dry??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009):

Asker--!

Yes, but I never slack in foreplay.

In fact there's always more than usual. Is that the problem?

I know I'm confused sexually, but I don't want it to stop because she likes guys, too. And, I'm afraid she doesn't believe I appreciate her body enough, which I, indeed do. Also, it's something we share, and I'd like it to continue.

The only time she ever expressed an interest in stopping is because I was wet, and she didn't want to have sex if I wasn't enjoying it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009):

if youre a girl and you have a female lover who turns you on, no you are not straight. if men turn you on too then you are bi, if not, you are gay. and sticky is not dry, if you have stickiness then there is moisture there. it probably means that as the relationship has gone on youv slacked off on foreplay a bit, which could cause you to be less aroused and less wet. also, 'the area where you would have a penis'?? strange way to refer to your vulva. you seem to have a bit of confusion about sex and sexual roles, maybe you shouldnt be involved in a sexual relationship til you figure some things out.

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