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writes:Hi everyone,okay so just going to jump straight in to this...Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and he is genuinely the nicest, kindest, most thoughtful person I have ever met, he treats me better than anybody ever has in past relationships and he loves me SO much and I love him too, I do... BUT lately I feel really distant from him he'll tell me he loves me and I'll say it back but wont feel anything when I say it, I know I do love him but I just sometimes feel like I cant be bothered with him, I know that sounds awful but something inside me has changed and I cant quite put my finger on it! He hasn't done anything wrong, he is so lovely and such an all round amazing guy but sometimes I feel like I have to force myself to make an effort with him, like now for instance he's arranging a nice romantic meal for us for tomorrow night and I'm sat here writing this thinking I'd rather just stay at home tomorrow alone or go out with the girls, what is wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (19 May 2012):
 I think that your relationship with him has settled down and you have got comfy in it.
You know hes always gonna be there kind of thing and making the effort and you are missing a spice in your life and a little uncertainty as you dont need to try and fight for him kind of thing.
Obviously if you cant be bothered talking to him or seeing him then there isnt really a point of dragging him along any longer and prolong the pain etc.
Late last year i was feeling the same with my ex at the time and in the end it just became boredom of the same nice things knowing that whatever happened just didnt excite me anymore.
Good luck in the decision you decide to make :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 May 2012):
 Sometimes relationships just run there course and there is nothing we can do about it, at the end of the day we cannot help how we feel. If it is getting to you that much then try and put some distance between you both. Make sure you spend time on your own doing things you enjoy, and also go out with your friends as much as you can and enjoy that part of life as well. Try and project something exciting back in to the relationship. Think back on some off your favourite memories with your boyfriend, and then try and recreate them. Good luck.
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