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female
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36-40,
*maried
writes:I simply dont feel like having sex very often, maybe twice a month. My partner is a wonderful man and he means the world to me. It makes me feel bad that I'm not in the mood more. I've had the same problem with previous boyfriends. I know this cant be normal but is there anyone else out there that has had this problem?
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 I've had this problem a couple times before as well, and like lotus mama808, I just kept trucking and found that I started to enjoy it again. Sex tends to get, not boring, but repetitive in a lot of relationships. You find things that each other like, and you stick to 'em! Not bad to begin with, but you really need to introduce something new in the bedroom from time to time to keep things fun. New positions, going on dates, talking dirty, whatever! Do something spontaneous and maybe a little "dangerous" and believe me, you'll definitely feel like doing it again!
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (29 May 2008):
 I've had 2 kids, and at 1 point, I felt like that too, but I tried to keep my partners feelings about sex in consideration, and once I got back on the bandwagon of doing it every day, I started to enjoy it again. But, I know how you feel. Busy all day, that when night comes, you just want to sleep. Sex feels like another chore. Try to remember though, a relationship with no sex will cause many problems. He might look for it elsewhere. Do whatever you can to feel sexy, and in the mood. Try new exciting things, play out fantacies, etc. If you love him, do your best to keep the sex flowing. Good luck!
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