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Why don't I enjoy sex?

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Question - (30 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2008)
A female Uganda age 22-25, anonymous writes:

hi guys. my ex and i tried to have sex several times bt i would get nervous and freeze. i was very uneasy even wen he tried to penetrate it was painful. i enjoyed kissing bt wen he fingered me or sucked my breasts i wouldnt feel anythng in short i was bored. am nw seeing smbody else and am realy anxious to have sex wit hm bt am worried i wil go thru the same experience. whats wrong wit me? am i normal? i want to knw and learn how to get an orgasm. plz help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008):

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thank alot for your response. atleast i now feel consoled. for a moment i thout i was abnormal. God bless u dear.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom + , writes (30 April 2008):

The most important part of a women during sex is her brain.

You have to be physically turned on and mentally turned on. If you are bored then you are not in the mood.

Keep kissing and remember how that makes you feel dizzy and nice. Then try and keep that feeling when your boyfriend is touching you in other places.

Don't worry about orgasms they will come much later.

Good Luck!! xx

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