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writes:hi. Im 13 and have never had boyfriend. Im not too bothered but everytime i like someone, i always get let down. Like, for example, i liked this one boy, and he liked me, but now he dosent seem to fancy me and has probably moved onto my friend. And i met this boy on holiday, but have been really let down because he has a girlfreind! why doesent it ever go right?
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reader, jodie +, writes (27 October 2007):
 hey bbe!!!!!!!! dont worry eventually it will go right! theres always sum1 for sum1!!!!!!
things will pik up wen they're ready! chin up and have a gd life make sure u av fun with all ur girly m8s! x luv me x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi guys! thanks for writing abd helping me with my question. your advice has helped a lot and made me feel much better. I now realise it doesent matter about having a boyfriend and im going to concentrate on the stuff i already have and enjoy being with my friends and family. someday the right boy will come along, but im not going to think about it too much. So thanks for your help!! xx
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reader, xxbaybeegal +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hiya im 13 as well and just to let you know i have never had a boyfriend, and when i was close to getting a boy all to myself he went on to my friend; just like you. well i think maybe waiting till your a bit older is the best time because if you get a boyfriend now you want to wait ove 5 years before before you get married, have children etc. he would have probably left you. Maybe if you had a little patience the right guy will come at the right time.xxjenxx
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
it seems that you have had a run of bad luck at this time, these thing happen babe, do not let the thoughtless people you have met so far, put you off, they do not represent every one because they do not see the wonderful person you really are, then that is there silly loss, there are lots of people out there waiting to go out with you, you have not met the right ones yet, do not despair they are waiting to meet you.
good luck.
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reader, zina  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 im 12 but i have the same problem and i realized a while back that...i doesnt matter! everyone u like or go out with now...theres a 99.999% chance u wont marry them so it doesnt matter!
and ur probably justy nervous and set ur standards to high.....try thinking the worst will happen and maybe it will be the exact opposite! it worked for me i thought no one liked me but now i found out a high schooler likes me so maybe something as great as that will happen if u set ur standards a little lower!
friend with the same prob,
zina
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (26 October 2007):
 I know you are probably going to hear this alot, but you are only 13 years old. You have got all the time in the world to think about relationships and boyfiends. Just because things don't feel like they are going right now, over time as you age and grow into a young woman things will click into place like a jigsaw puzzel. For now relax, enjoy the joys af being only 13, have fun with your pals and leave the boyfriend stuff till you are older.
Take care x
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reader, need help here i am +, writes (26 October 2007):
your just havina bad time everyone has them if you just find a nice boy (friend) and stay close to him you will soon be more comfy around boys and learn how to rake em in lol you just have to wait and then one day your prince will soon come and it will be worth the wait
gud luk
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): You are 13 and in my book you are way too young for all this serious adult stuff. You will meet someone when you get older and more developed both mentally and physically. Until then enjoy your youth. Why do you want to be grown up before your time? You probably have friends who have boyfriends, so what? They probably have to put up with moody scuffy herberts ruling their lives and thoughts. Just be grateful for all you have. Your health and your strength and dont be in too much of a rush for this adult relationship stuff. Big hugs coming your way.
take care
xx
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