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Why does she keep coming back if she never wants to be with me again?

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Question - (2 September 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone! I am a 17 year old female who is bi. So, I this is hard to explain but I will do my best. Almost a year ago, I dated a girl for three weeks. Afterwards she went back to her ex who was also my bestfriend at the time. Since we both dated the same girl we went our separate ways. While my ex was dating my (old) best friend she would always come back to me (as in talking to me constantly). Now because of that my ex realized she still had feelings for me but couldn't leave her current girlfriend. She told me she would never date me again. At some point we ended up kissing while she was in the relationship, which of course means she cheated. Six months later, they broke up. I ended up dating my (old) best friend for one month. She then broke up with me and started dating her ex again. They are currently together once again, and the girl (ex I dated for three weeks) is telling me it hurts that we can't talk. That is because her girlfriend doesn't trust either of us. The overall point of this is over the months of talking to my ex I've fallen in love with her. We have had a fair share of hurting each other, but I can't get over her and for some reason she keeps coming back to me. I don't know why and that's my question. Why does she keep coming back if she never wants to be with me again? I apologize for this being so long, but I figured you would need to know some background information. Thank you!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2012):

Hi,

I agree with the previous poster. Don't ever let anyone treat you like that (like crap). My advice would be: severe all ties with her because you want something she can't give you. You're better off moving on, and looking for someone else. Good luck!

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