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Why does my vagina keep making this farting noise? It's extremely embarrassing!!!!

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Question - (13 March 2007) 89 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

please could you give me some advice,when my partner and i start to make love my vagina makes the most awful farting sound; it doesnt bother him but i find it extremely embarrasing, please could you help me i am getting married in six weeks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010):

this usually happens to me when me and my boyfriend are making love.

it always happens when my legs are on his shoulders though.

we don't have a problem with it happening but it is a little embrassing.

he had asked me one time what it was, and i'm said that air gets into my vagina when he's going in and out and that it has to come out somehow.

at first he though i had something wrong with me until i explained it to him, he then went on the internet to make sure.

i'd say you have nothing to worry about.

enjoy the love making.

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A female reader, sasori'sgirl United States +, writes (16 April 2010):

well its just air.It only happens to when i hang upside down

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010):

its never happned to me but your ok its just air releasing from your vigina if the guy dose not like it he can get over it or go on down the road

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010):

i have had this happen a few times. the first time it happend i kinda knew what it was but i blamed it on his small penis letting the air in. Now i am with the largest of all my partners and it happend again the other night. im no doctor but i do know it is just air. it doesnt smell or anything and has nothing to do with the tightness of your vagina. This most often happens to me when changing positions or when my legs are on his sholders. even though i know what causes this noise and that it is nothing bad i am still very embaresses everytime it happens and sometimes it causes me to loose some wetness. my boyfriend just kinda laughs and keeps going. my advise is to just make sure he knows what it is and ENJOY YOUR SEX LIFE.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010):

you have a big vagina, do some exercises

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

It's reassuring to read these posts. After my own experience (lost my virginity less than a year ago, and have had few sexual partners), it seems ridiculous to blame this phenomenon on a 'loose' vagina. Although I still find the experience embarassing, my boyfriend is fine about it, he just laughs (not cruelly, affectionately) and keeps going- which makes me feel less self-conscious than I would ordinarily. I think there is more likelihood the more vigorous the sex- it has only happened to me with my current boyfriend, as he is quite large and tends to thrust completely in and out (letting air in and out) and thrusts more vigorously than the couple of other sexual partners I have had.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010):

Okay, your vagina is making farting noises because air is being trapped in your vagina when you do simple things such as bending over. If you want to prevent your embarassing noises, before you begin your strenuous love making, you should contract and uncontract you vagina to loosen the bubbles. Then push as if you are trying to birth a baby, and you will hear the noises as the gas releases.

Have fun

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010):

all i have to say, is how do you stop it?!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010):

it is so nornmal but i am so embaressed about this to :( ive had sex alot and it had never happened to me before until my partner im with now and i feel uncomfortable to talk to him about it because he doesnt understand what it is because he lost his virginity to me any tips?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010):

it's trapped air in the vagina, your guy is probably pulling out too far and then when he goes back in he is shoving air in there. wrap your legs around his waist and that will control how far he can pull out and that will solve that problem.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010):

I think all women experience that noise. It can be embarassing at first until you confirm the noise is coming from your vagina. I personally feel it's just air releasing from your body after some terrific love making! The better it is the more noise your vagina will make!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010):

Hiya,

We and my husband keep laughing about it too coz i never had it before not even when i lost my virginity or even after child birth but when am doing yoga holding myself upside down i always have it...lol...but its nothing smelly or embarassing..i find it quite funny and relieving...come on cheer up..next time when you have it just relax and do laugh about it coz its really funny nothing embarassing:))

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010):

Hey its completely normal. it happened to me when he flipped me upside down i was embarrassed a first but then he laughed and we kept going

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010):

im a male and that noise turns me on more

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010):

You just need to know how to control your muscle once you learn it does not matter how small or big he has it or how tight or loose you are. When having sex try contracting your muscle, this is going to create a suction, then release and push your muscle out, like when your going to pee. Do this process until you become familiar with your body. Just remember you will start off slow then gradually get better its all about practice. When you push out, you will feel it gets tighter then you tighten your muscle hold it and release, then push again. It takes practice but you will get it. Your boyfriend will love it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010):

Wow this helped alot ladies and gentlemen

it is embarrasing and i didnt know what it was from!

Thanks all

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010):

dont know but i have a bigger problem mine does the same but has an awfull odour as well but only at the end of an orgasm why is this any one know i am 43

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010):

everytime me and my boyfriend have sex, it makes a weird sound, a fart sound, and he just pretends it didnt happen, and when he cums in me.. and when we stop having sex . and i laugh or somthing after we have sex, it also makes a fart sound and all the cum squirts back out of my vagina.

why does it do this and how do i stop it..

everytime we have sex now, im all tense and all stiff, really nervous

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010):

im in a new relationship, Im 53, and it has never happened ever to me, i was so embaressed, but contrary to most answers on here, my guy is huge, and it really feels so tight that at first we have to lubricate. it has happened every time we have had sex, its a relief to read these other womens stories, but I want a cure, and dont seem to be a solution, if I had to think about squeezing and holding I think I wud forget to enjoy what we are doing

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A male reader, The Real Man United States +, writes (25 February 2010):

They're just "pussy farts" or "queefs" some Brits call them "fanny farts"...as said by other posters it's just trapped air and quite natural. I cannot believe all the negativity on the web I find about this natural occurance. A farting pussy to me means a happy pussy. It's wet! It's relaxed! and for God sake...it's talking to me!! It's saying I'm doing it right!! LOL ! There is no foul odor. IT'S JUST AIR! So lighten up and enjoy yourselves. Ladies should not be embarrassed and guys should grow up. PEACE!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

I always thought it was because when I lost my virginity the guy broke my hymen. That's when I noticed I started "queefing". I never did it while we had sex or anything else, but a few months later, I noticed that when I would sleep in a certain position, mainly with one of my legs up. I could feel air going in, and when I'd move my leg back down/change positions, it would queef. Now I have a new partner, we had sex together for our first time tonight. Afterward, when I got up (kinda fast) the air let out, and made a hugeee queef, and I think he heard it. Which is SUPER embarrassing, because he's pretty new to this whole sex thing, and we're only 15 and 17. So really, what knowledge would he have? He'd think it was disgusting, but he's so great he pretended he didn't hear a ting.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

this is because he has impaled his penis in you and thus taking it out lets air get in. When the farting noise happens this is just the air being released often referred to as a "Queef".

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010):

what if your a young teen & this is happening.

but your not having sex & you havnt lost your virginity??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010):

I hate when this happens, it is a huge turnoff and no guy likes it. Granted it will not stop them from having sex.

The girl I am currently dating does not emit this sound and I find sex more pleasuring because of it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010):

it happens to me all the time. its pretty normal. now im no expert because im just a teenager, but it has happened before to me. i heard from doctors that it is clearly normal. so dont be stresssed. =)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010):

that is normal, air goes inside the pussy then when it came out it gives sounds like farts

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010):

I just lost my virginity a few weeks ago and it happened to me the last time I had sex. I was so embarressed. I was too distracted to keep going. My guy said he didnt care, but I was humliated. Since then, I've been too worried about it to sleep with him again, and he doesnt understand why. I just dont want it to happen again..but I dont want the lack of sex to ruin our relationship.

Now I know its completely normal, ill just put on some loud music and try to ignore it. Thank You!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010):

Aw, don't be embarrassed. Personally, a queef turns me on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010):

Lol it's a queef nothing to worry about, ots pretty muh just trapped air that's getting out in sort of a bubble form.

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A female reader, ambush United States +, writes (16 January 2010):

Its called a queef.

some people can do it on cue and it smells like pussy

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A female reader, teiliababy United States +, writes (8 September 2009):

teiliababy agony auntits completely normal for that to happen to a female. it happened to me a few weeks ago n that never happened to me before and when it did happen i was so embarrassed but when he asked me i farted i just busted out laughing with him n told him the wher it came from. only reason ti does that is because air is getting into your vagina and that the only way for it to get out is by it realasing it n making it sound like a fart.its completely normal n you should not be embarrassed by it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009):

It doesnt have to do with being loose I lost my virginity 5 months ago and its happening to me. Usually for me its because of doggy style so change the positionn that makes the sound. It's normal and guys dont really care my bf told me.

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A female reader, charmillion United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2009):

even when i was a virgin the first few times after having sex with my first guy it happened. its the way he penetrates you not how loose ur vagina is because i kno for a fact to even penetrate me was somewhat painfull after i had lost my virginity. so its not weird or anything just how the body works. and it was very embarassing too hehe

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A female reader, imcurioustoo United States +, writes (13 June 2009):

So ladies and men .. I as of lately have been having the exact same problem .. Its embarrasing yes try mortifying but like 5 min ago I called my boyfriend told him what was happening and that it was his fault it was happening and it was making me very nervous everytime we'd have sex in fear it'll happen so he said allright I understand and ill be more careful.. So it'll be awkward but if he loves you he'll understand no worries girls its ok!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009):

First off, it doesn't matter how many men you've been with. Your vagina does not stretch out. That's just ignorant to even come to that assumption. It's like, just because someone talks a lot doesn't mean their mouth will get bigger. Having a "loose vagina" if there even is such a thing is completely ridiculous and shouldn't even be a factor. I'm sorry that your pencil dick is small and you wanna make women insecure for it. And for men out there who think like this, they do not represent for me, a man with logical thoughts and a real education.

Second off, air is just gettin trapped in there and it's due to the fact the penis goes in and out, which inadvertently allows air to enter. This is especially so when the penis completely pulls out and immediately thrust back in. That's normally when it happens. So no worries. It's embarrassing for the girl but it's really the guys fault. Sorry, ladies, we just can't keep our hands off of ya.

And lastly, a "loose vagina" is actually when a female is completely turned on. The more turned on she is the easier it is to insert, which can cause the appearance of "loose vagina." This is because her natural lubrication is ample and her inner muscles have contracted to allow easier penetration. That's all it is.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

Im pretty sure i have it summed up to the size of your vagina. Now this might sound a bit weird and somewhat harsh, im no expert either but from experience, girls that i have had sex with that have had abortions or have had alot of guys always vagina fart, and girls that that ive been with who dont sleep around and have never had an abortion dont. weird ey?

well my only conclusion is that there vagina is slightly to large for your willy so when you stick it in there's excess space around the willy (lol) and when thrusting this air shoots out and makes a farting sound. i think thats pretty logical right

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

its fine. guys love it.

i guess the guy who i had sex wit at first wasn't so gud cause the qqueef was very low. last night when I've had sexy with my fiance i queefed like 100 times. every 5 min. maybe its because of the position (not dogie style) andd the speed+the force.

its more fun, and he d0n'tt mind. have fuun (:

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

Don't wory abt it luv,it's just air.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009):

I have had that problem in the past. Here is something that helped me. My man is big and kind of long (honest). I always felt because of that it seemed he would push more air in me. Those long and harder thrusts seemed to push air right up to my eyebrows. SOOO what I learned to do was to

hold onto(with pelvic muscles)his penis like it belonged to a million dollar gigolo,using those same muscles that I do for Kegels. I would hold on like I really had to fart in the normal fashion (you females know what I mean..talk about embarrassing). Not only does it help stop the air from coming in, my Lover enjoys it tremendously and cums even harder. He says he feels it when I tighten my muscles. Then there is the extra benefit of doing my Kegels!!!

Sometimes a little air does get in, and wants to escape when he withdraws, to help that, we relax and enjoy being one (as they say), then pulls out slowly...seems to work. My man could care less about the sounds...but he knows how embarrassed I would get, to the point of distraction for us both. He worked with me to solve the problem. HE's THE BEST.

I hope this little tidbit might help any out there who feel it's a problem, but if it doesn't, DON'T WORRY, BE HAPPY, you are normal. :)

By now the original girl who first posted this question has been married a couple of years. (Orig.Post, March 2007) I wonder how it all turned out? :) Seems like lots of people are still reading the post though. I guess it's one of those questions that others identify with.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008):

Kinda interesting viewpoints on all this. I'm actually looking online for some answers myself. My girlfriend makes noises when she climaxes extremely hard. Not during penetrating sex, but during foreplay when I'm playing with her. It doesnt' happen immediately, but when she gets "going", it starts. She seems perfectly comfortable with it. So much so, that it has never even been brought up in discussions or even laugh about it. I just know she does it when her entire body tightens up and she orgasms. Good for me to know that it makes it very easy to count how many times she climaxes.... LOL. Seriously, it was very odd the first time it happened, but now I actually like it because I know how to keep pleasing her. Roll with it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008):

In all honesty... Your Vagina is just loose which causes which causes it to make that farting sound if you do keagal execerises it will help, but there are other options either you stop having sex with other men and then your vagina will stay the size made for your partner...

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A male reader, DJ MASACRE Canada +, writes (19 December 2008):

It is normal.

Usually happens when having sex Doggy-Style or turning over ( releasing the air )

It normally happens after the woman ejaculates and then dries up, while the man continues to pump air with the penis.

It can be embarassing the first time, but if your getting married you should be mature enough to not let it bother you once you both talk about it and understand what it is.

If your going to be together forever, you should be talking about all these things, so you will feel comfortable with each other.

Ive been with my girlfriend for 2 years, and it happens almost everytime we have sex except missionary.

I already expect it to happen. Once you understand its just the way the body works, its no big deal .

now if she did that with her "other hole" that could be a bit weird ;)

communication is your best tool.

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A male reader, Medic United States +, writes (12 August 2008):

Your condition if you want to call it that is very common. The "farting" noise comes from air within the vagina. Often if the male has a smaller penis, air escapes from around the penis, causing these "farting" noises. It's nothing big. Air and moisture in the vagina during intercourse will sometimes cause this noise.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

do not worry about it girl, i've also had that have had girls do the same thing! you do not mean it, it is just something that you experience during you and your loved one intercoarse! seriously do not worry about and enjoy the sex instead of worrying about! Anyway i'm only 20 and you probably do not care for my advice but hopefully it can ease the feeling and leave you wit nothing to worry about! Anyways all the best to you and your partner and have a great marriage, CONGRATULATIONS on your marriage and the best of luck

Yours sincerly, Leigh Quinn

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008):

darling we all do it. cancel your marriage until further notice. you seriously need to see a doctor because My mom had this experience and it turned out to be a kind of cervical cancer

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008):

OMG!!!!!!!! I thought I was the only one, I did not feel normal. But now I feel much better I'm not the only one. It is so freakin' ambarresing for me, I just want it to stop.But it does not bother my partner at all, although it turns me off completely!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

hehe

yep, almost always happens to me and my husband. we have sex doggy style mostly and go for it pretty hard with me hanging over the sofa, legs in the air. it does not happen during, only after. when i read the above reply about the volcano i bloody laughed, its just like pulling a post sex plug and all the air comes blowing out, like a whistle the act is over :-) we always laugh!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008):

often times that noise, actually called "queefing" is from your partner position and him pushing air inside of you. it happens to me sometimes when we get a little too into it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008):

the human body can make all sorts of noises when in a state of emotional feeling.Say like you had sex your vagina would tingle

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

omg. I'm terrified of having sex...I felt like the only reason why this was happening was due to getting loose.

I would not sleep with no one for a while since I had that fear of making that noise and feeling so humiliated.

Wow, reading this at least makes me feel like I'm not the only one out there, so I'm goona get it on tonight!! lol

Thanks people.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

it's a queef.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=queef

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

OMG! Thank you so much! This happend to me last night and I was totally humiliated! I felt like I had to explain it to my husband, but I didn't even know myself! All I knew was that it came from my vagina and not the other hole. Only thing is I'm the only partner my husband has had so this was the first time he'd ever heard/seen it happen, so I was scared he wouldn't believe me.

He wasn't bothered by it like I was though, he was just like "can we please still finish?".

Anyway, now I have the answers and it's all thanks to whoever posted the question, so thanks for being so brave!

Thanks,

Feeling Much Better Now

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

this is not a prob..

my self..I dig it..its almost a complement..you must be fucking me well

dont panic..its OK!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008):

this is great, i love all of these totally real answer and no one is being stupid about it.

it's happened to me and i really think is humiliating too, but it sounds like most guys love it.

(which makes me feel so much better!!! THANKS BOYS!!)

the first time i did it, it freaked me out-but now i know it's nothing....and my guy knew what it was and that it was normal...(which was weird to me that this kid has sex 101 knowledge)

but so it's all fine and nothing to worry about...it\s a queef.

but if it still bothers you like it does me...turn up the music hun.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008):

Yeah it is trapped air. LOL why dont you guys just turn the music very loud when your about to have sex if its that embrassing I've done that a few times

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

you are a very lucky woman!!!!!!!!!!! Love that sound...an over active vagina is what I call it. Love it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008):

Aw don't worry infact this happened to me last night. Infact it was after sex well it never happened the first time but the second time it did. I was embarassed when it first happened but he didnt even seem to notice. Suppose he was too occupied lol. It realy does happen to everyone so try to just ignore it and have fun. If it does bother ur male partner tell him to grow up and grow a bigger dick as then you would't have this problem

And to the guy that videod his girlfriend ewwww gross silly pig of a man!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008):

i am also going through this but it only started after i gave birth. hop it wil end coz its quite embarassing. i get it when i start up especially from a sitting/bending position and occassionally after sex. hop it'l end.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2008):

My girlfriends have only had this happen very rarely after sex not during, which from the other posts here tells me what i already knew, that i have a near flawless technique and a big penis. yay for me.

For you less fortunate girls, i'd recommend some of the same advice given here: tell the dipshit to quit pulling out and back in (unless you like it - although i dont think pumping air into there is the most healthy thing), change positions, use more lube, or just find yourself an italian stallion. (we're recognizable by our dark hair and big noses)

Also he should know what is causing that sound and you shouldnt be embarrased - maybe he should.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008):

Well i suggest, i'm actually being serious...

First of all, before you and your partner get intimate, rub some baby oil, or and oil of that such on it, lubrication and it make stop it getting dry and air escaping. Clitoris piercing can loosen the vagina and sometimes may stop the air escaping, before you think about it, discuss it with your partner.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008):

the man when he makes love to you pushes air into your vagina and it comes out soundinf like a fart so tell him to go a little slower when hes having fun!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008):

When me and my girlfriend have sex and this happens it turns me on so much. I love the sound and i try to go harder and faster. Its mind *%*k ing. I love it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008):

hey don't worry about it its COMPLETELY (sp?) normal, everyone has had it happened, just do KEGELS. they help! it tightens the muscles down there and it makes for less embarrassing noises.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008):

to the "male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008"

YOU recorded her while doing it, without her knowing?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

OMG this is terribly embaresing, it happened to me yesterday ! I thought I was goinna die. He was just like WTF, All I could do was just lay there, face was real red, mortafied as can be. But he started laughing so we just laughed it off.

*I came on this site to try to figure out what the hell this noise was.

Thnxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

I know how u feel, it is so embarassing. I know with doggie it happens to me and when we finish it is like a volcanno of air. I hate it. It only started after my third baby. Has anyone had any success with pelvic floor exercises working? let me know.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

Well lovely i think he must love you enough to do that.

Most men would be completely turned off And probably run away. What a gentleman.

Also The People above are lyeing!

I had a girl like you once, In the end she left town as We recorded her...

toodles babes

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007):

Its perfectly normal! Happens to me quite a lot too and like most ppl have said here, tends to happen more with doggy style. Once you get over the initial cringe-factor and laugh it off, you'll just come to accept it as 'one of those things'. & if you're partner doesn't have a problem with it then you shouldn't either! The alternative is to not have sex and that would just be silly!! So carry on, make lurve and make noise!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007):

this is very normal, it happens to me all the time when i attempt to make love to my lesbian partner. dont be embarrissed its completely natural.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007):

It's known as a "queef". It's when air gets in the vaginal canal and as the penis enters the vagina it forces the air past the penis and out of the vagina and causes your labia to "flap" or vibrate causing that farting type sound. Most men find it kind of sexy (at least I do!) LOL

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007):

it's because he withdraws his penis out of your vagina which allows air to get in so it has no other way to get out so it makes a farting noise. I hate when that happens so I tell my man not to pull all the way out until the job is done

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007):

It is caused by Vaginal flatulence is an emission or expulsion of air from the vagina, often during or after sexual intercourse or (less often) other sexual acts, stretching or exercise. The sound is somewhat comparable to flatulence from the anus but does not involve waste gases and thus often has no specific odor associated.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007):

I know how u feel cuz im facing the same problem. I usually get this sound when I'm bending down or when I'm streching after doing sports. My doc said it's cuz of giving birth the Vagina has become a lil' wider but i used to have it before as well so that can't be the main reason. I think it's really the positions we're putting our body in and should try to avoid them, but then again - I love doggy style and I'm not willing to avoid it. So either my partner has to accept the fact that it happens once in a while (I guess when I'm too relaxed inside my vagina) or he's losing out on some good booty...LOL...

Anyway i do feel embarrassed if it happens outside my own house or when people are around. But hey we're all human and as u can read here there also some men who can confirm that it is pretty common.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007):

this happened to me and my fiance was like what the hell was that are you qweefing lol. so he said to look it up while he went and got cigs haha. but its just really embarrasing in a way but i still laugh it off. and sometimes if im on top of him i will also pass gas that embarrasing but i laugh it off to

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007):

I am a doctor and this is a common question amongst younger girls, because it is something they have never experienced.

This is called a qweef. It is when the vagina actually sucks in air or has air pushed into it either through intercourse or oral sex or other types of activities, usually sexual. The vagina then flexes and pushes the air out. It typically does not have an odor to it but is essentially like a flautulant. It is nothing to be embarassed about and if your fiance has no problem with it, don't worry about it.

Sometimes the way you are having sex can cause this. Especially if he is pulling his penis out and then pushing back in multiple times. If he has a smaller penis and your vaginal opening is a bit bigger than his penis, this can be another cause, because it allows air around the penis during intercourse.

I would strongly recommend that you not even have sex or any sexual relationship with your boyfriend/fiance until you get married. Having sexual realtionships before marriage can be very damaging to a relationship and statistics show that more people end up in divorce if they have had sexual relations before marriage.

Be careful!!!! Abstanance is the best way to go. You will both love and respect each other much more if you wait.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007):

It happened to me too, when we're start to make love in doggy style. He didn't like it, but I told him It was not my purpose. He just told me not to remind him about that. I think it's natural.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007):

i totally know what you mean! it happened to me today! haha! it happens to me when my boyfriend and I are doing "doggy-style". It just happens. But I just laugh it off. It doesn't seem to bother him, so I guess there's nothing to do but move past it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007):

I have a similiar, quite embarrassing situation. In my case, it is unrelated to sex but it happens for no known reason like getting up off a chair, walking, or sometimes even standing. How does air get in? What the hell do you say to people when it is clearly audible? NOT something you can laugh off. You don't want to explain it's only air...but it has become a major problem during work because of recurring incidences. I'm sure childbirth has a lot to do with it, and vaginal muscle must be toned by Kegel exercise...BUT what do you do in the interim? I welcome advice, similar experiences, anything that will help me deal with this stressful situation. It's bad when you cannot control it and it happens spontaneously when you least expect it. THX!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007):

Yes this is also very embrassing for me too it happens all the time when he is "hittin it from the back" lol!! At first it killed me and i just turn real red but now i just keep on about my business it doesnt bother him none so why let it bother you!! Its good to know that it happens to a lot of us! good to know im not alone!!! lol!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007):

lol its a kweif (or however u spell it)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007):

It's because you force air in there either with the penis or anything else you stick in there.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007):

this happens to me too. I think we're so special that we have this although it is gross.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007):

Its all natural baby

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007):

its called fanny farting duh!!!!

its just gas not a fart but it smells like fish i guess

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007):

tighten your vagina, by vagina muscle control, during the shower, sitting down and after sex. atleast 200 count a day. and if this does not work, than I am sorry, your future husband, may just have a small penis.

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A female reader, aunty t Ireland +, writes (13 March 2007):

aunty t agony auntI had this problem and as the other too aunts said its only trapped air. When this happens to me i can forget about sex for the night as it always makes me laugh and once i start laughing i cant stop. Changing positons helps so stop fretting. It wont effect your relationship unless you let it and your boyfriend isnt bothered.

Good luck

Aunty t

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A female reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2007):

xxxsoulsistaxxx agony auntYes, this is just trapped air. I find this happens most when we do 'doggy style' so try doing something else. Find out what does it for you and stop doing that position if it annoys you. Also, ask him not to keep removing and entering you, as this is when most of the air gets trapped inside. Once he's in, he has to stay in and you should be fine (except when changing positions of course!)

This will help you but I think you need to chill. You say he's not bothered and it's things like this that can affect our confidence so much that we forget that sex should be enjoyable and relaxed. Try to laugh this off or talk about it, don't let it ruin the moment or become more of a big deal than it has to be. Remember, this happens to everyone at some point, try new things to keep it to a minimum but just relax and take sex for what it is: not perfect like in the films but really incredible when you relax!

Good luck.

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A male reader, agony_uncle_r United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2007):

its no big deal. its embarrasing and kills the mood for sure but from the limited amount of partners that ive had i can tell you its pretty much standard.

its just the 'pistoning' trapping air withing you. it tends to happen more in positions where your on your back or legs high so try a different one.

hope this helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

LOL - sorry to tell you it's trapped air...I had it before and just change positions, I changed lovers and bigger cock solved the problem!

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