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writes:I'm 19 and my ex boyfrend is 35 (married and 2 kids) and my new boyfrend is 21(lovely guy). We all work as medics together, theres 9 guys and one girl(me) in my job so its very small and everybody knows everybody's business! My ex is treating my new boyfrend like crap! He makes him do shitty jobs and gives him evil looks and talks down to him in a really rude way its so unfair! its so awkward and difficult to cope! I feel its all my fault that my new bf is being treated unfairly! I cannot leave my job (i signed a contracrt for 3yrs). me and my new bf are working there one year while my ex is workin there 20yrs, he is the boss, he is the one who hires and fires so theres nobody i can talk to about my problem! help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): young lady- quite simply there is only one thing to do. you have a quite word in the ex's ear discretely and tell him he has 5 and no more working days to completely change his behaviour to your current bf, and treat him exactly as other staff members of equal grade or everything he does wrong is logged and he, and thus the hospital is up for an harrassment charge- and they will not like that believe me. you must must mean this and not be weak willed.
seeing two guys on the same unit was not the brightest thing i have ever heard mind- maybe you've learnt something about adult male behaviour here. know i feel sorry for your bf- appreciate him or lose him too.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (6 February 2007):
 I think he is jealous maybe he would like to have the opportunity tobe closer to u or even to go back to u in case his relationshio did not work u may have a brilliant future ahead while his near future is getting fat in foront of tv and watch matches drinking beer while u go clubbing and enjoy sex drive,in the end the important thing is you really have it, do as if u didn't notice his efforts to feel a loser cos of your new boy and forget about it
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