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Why does my boyfriend look up his ex's at least once a week?

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Question - (29 November 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is it normal that my boyfriend looks up all his exes and sometimes just girls that he has kissed/had flings with on facebook? It's once a week ish usually! I never do that!!

He is a big thinker he thinks about everything - his mind is always going and he works mornings and evenings and so has most of the daytime off to sit at home. Could be boredom or that he's not satisfied in the relationship?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2013):

Force of habit.

When you get on his nerves, she's his reminder how it could be worse.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2013):

OP here - I don't snoop anymore - I did once in awhile and it's a lingering worry that I think about. We're working through my trust issues - it's not him it's me. And yes I know it's wrong... So I know that he was doing this, and I can't shake it!!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (29 November 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntso he knows you know...

is it because he tells you or because you snoop.

if he tells you.. then it's up to you to decide if you wish to stay or not. If he tells you, it probably is pretty harmless but only you can decide if you want to deal with it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2013):

He just shrugs and says he just does, that I shouldn't worry!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (29 November 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthow do you know he does this? does he tell you or are you checking up on him?

if you are checking up on him you don't trust him.

It could be boredom... or curiosity... it does not mean he's not satisfied in the relationship.

what does he say about it when you ask him?

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