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writes:Why Does Love Hurt?Yeah love can be a great and a amzing feeling. But it can hurt sooo bad..Love is very a powerful and yet beautiful emotion. Life without love is meaningless and empty; However whenever we love someone there is always a chance the person won't love you back or they just don't feel the same way as you do,that is when love HURTS. You can't stop caring about that person because you love them and yet you don't get anything in return.Love Hurts but it makes me feel alive. love can hurt if you love that person so bad you will do any thing for that personlove hurt when you cant be with that person that you want to be with..I think love is a beautiful beautiful thing. But it can also be something that can hurt you because the person you love may not love you back. and even if they do its hard for you to recognize it because they show it in an completey different way than you. they express their feelings in other ways that you may not understand. love can make you do crazy things as you should all know or at least have grown to know. for me its a struggle maybe because im young but its definatley hard. The truth, however, is that love does not hurt but it is the falling out of love or not having love that really hurts. And the higher you are, such as in the heights of passion or the tower of a long-term love, the harder the fall. A break-up, divorce, death, or abandonment are some of the most painful experiences of life because we miss our love so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): thanks for this excellent advice & i am sure i will take by it always and i will take care for my heart and feelings so no one would hurt them because nobody deserves
and they were hurt one time and that wont be repeated
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reader, DiovanLestat + ♥, writes (20 May 2008):
 Thanks for this post. You've brought a lot of pleasure to be and perhaps other people with your words. Thanks for sharing your feelings with us.
And yes, I believe your right. Love does hurt but I'd suffer the pain a 1000 times, for the memories of the joy it brought into my life.
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reader, WastedLife  +, writes (20 May 2008):
Dear I-CRY-ALONE, You answered your own question. Love is what it is, it is the source of life itself, and it is not to be trifled with. As you get to know yourself over the years, you will love and win, love and lose, and ultimately discover your inner self. At some point, there is a change in the character of loss, and the pain that hurts so much becomes a special part of you. It still hurts, yet poignantly, and your character mellows and deepens. It's a hard process, but that's life. May you truly experience yours - both the ecstasy and the agony. You will ultimately understand.
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