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Why does it still hurt after all this time?

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Question - (1 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *laire211 writes:

I feel as if i'm over my ex.. but sometimes I do still think of him and it really unsettles me, he has a new girlfriend now, I don't feel jealous, she seems perfectly nice, but I can't help feel hurt if I see pictures of them together. Me and his mum still go to salsa on a Tuesday and I don't like going to their house as he will be there and it feels akward so I get her to pick me up. Our relationship was rocky and we had alot of drama before it eventually ended in a split (which was civil)

I suppose my ultimate question is:

Why do I still think of him after months of being apart and it still hurts me to see him with his new love, especially when it's been 6 months since we split up?

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A male reader, gmoney United States +, writes (3 January 2010):

With some people I dont think the pain ever goes away, unless you block those people out your life.. I just recently hung out with a x and shortly after saw her with one of her x's n was crushed... I havent ben with this girl in over a year n also have plenty of other girls but it still hurts wtf luv sucks sometimes its best just to break when u break up.

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A female reader, xAx United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2010):

xAx agony auntProbably you miss being in a relationship as you were close to him, you feel the connection and want it.

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