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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please help I over heard my boyfriend talking to his ex girlfriend on the phone, he didn't know i was there....they have a 8month old baby together.I heard him telling her that people are spreading things about him, it looked like the ex said to him why don't you move out off the area and start somewhere fresh. Because his ex girlfriend and his baby were on a joint housing list together the girlfriend pulled out when they broke up, he asked the ex not to take her name off the list, she refused, and it sounds like she told him to put the new girlfriend on the list, and go have kids with her, his reply was it might not be her, it might be with another woman if thats what it takes to get a flat everyone else does it, he also said he might just move in with any women and no one will hear from him ever....then he went on to say she can go when she wants (meaning me) and he also said 'i'm not being rude, but its all about building a furture with my kids.I can't help but feel he is still trying to get a reaction from his ex, beacuse the other day, they were having a joke about sloping 2nd etc, and my partner is better than yours etc. He also keps saying to her how she drove him away, why does he keep saying that to her, he shouldn't care anymore if he dumped her and his with me now, whats going on?Snice i have been with him, people have been saying things warning me off him etc, i'm 22 his 44 and he has 2kids from 2 diffrent women. I don't know what to do, has i do love him...do u think his still intrested in his ex?I also read a text from his ex asking about some love letters she sent him, if he minds not showing people, he said he wont, he will put them away in a box, and show there daughter when she gets older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): You're only 22, this guy is old enough to be your father. Why are you even interestd in him? He already has kids, & from the sounds of it, he doesn't care about you. He is probably using you b/c you're a young piece of meat. Don't you want a man who you can build a family with? Not a old man who already has 2 families with other women!! He is careless with his life. You don't need to be trapped with him by getting pregnant by him too. It sounds like he is interested in his ex, but she left him. If she would go back to him he would leave you. Also, I think he only wants her b/c she has a child & he wants to live off of the government assistance. He needs to grow up! People are warning you about this guy, doesn't that ring a bell in your head? They aren't making things up, they are looking out for you. You need to start looking out for yourself.
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