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Why does he say he is still in love with me and has had sex with both myself and a new woman ?

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Question - (5 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, *rqz writes:

why does my ex still call me and text me if he has a new relationship. why does he say he is still in love with me and has had sex with both myself and new woman (until i found out).He was trying to convince me that we are not over. why does he tell me he wants to get rid of her. I have expressed to him that I do not any part of this yet he still calls and text. When I change my number he shows up at my house, school, job. How can I put this to an end. Too old for this (39)

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A female reader, erqz United States +, writes (6 February 2010):

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Aain Iwant to THANK CARINGGUYAN BOO22. Thissocall BLIGHT ofaconnection with thisperson weighs onmhy spirit.Looking 4 healing. Want 2 move on HEALTHY and PAIN free. If he wouldleavee alone I thinkI have a FIGHTING chance. I JUST need thisto be over. It is not as easy as calling the police 4 he went to prison 4 beating a man who was sexsxing his woman while he went to work. He does notutilize good judgement I am not afraid of him JUST WANT 2 B LEFT ALONE and find someone who really loves me. We broke up after he wouldnot ayhisshare of the rent causing myselfand myson to be displaced. He moved back to MOMMY. Will I ever get FREEDOM from this bondage for the emotional rollercoaster makes it hard for me to date. Feel as though i wasted 4 yrs on a PSYCHO. THANX 4 YOUR SUPPORT

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2010):

Because he is still trying to use you. This time, when you cut contact and he comes around, tell him that you will get the police on him.

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2010):

boo22 agony auntHe does it cos he's a lying cheatin dog, who doesn't know what he wants.

So he reckons he'll have the nickel and the bagel as well while he can.

Tell him if he shows up at your work or home again you'll call the cops. That usually sees them off

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